Terry Mattingly: Shocking words given to Presbyterians

By Terry Mattingly
From Scripps Howard News Service

Anyone who attends one of the national church assemblies that dot the calendar every summer knows that they are highly ritualized affairs.

Officers will be elected.

Political issues will be discussed.

Lofty resolutions will be passed.

At least one long business session will include a proposal about clergy benefits and salaries.

In recent decades, gatherings in the “seven sisters” of mainline Protestantism have also — to varying degrees — featured battles over sex. These flocks are, in descending order of size, the United Methodist Church, the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.), the Episcopal Church, the American Baptist Churches USA, the United Church of Christ and the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ).

But as the hours pass, veterans know that they can take breaks whenever the word “greeting” appears in the agenda, marking a polite mini-speech by a visiting civic leader or religious dignitary.

But something unusual happened recently during the 219th General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.). An official “ecumenical advisory delegate” — Father Siarhei Hardun of the Orthodox Church of Belarus — used his moment at the podium to deliver a message that was courteous and stunning at the same time, if not genuinely offensive to many in the audience.

“Frankly, he was pretty sly about what he said and how he said it,” noted the Rev. Carmen S. Fowler, president of the conservative Presbyterian Lay Committee. “People are used to dozing off during these greetings, so this caught them off guard … Most of the General Assembly yawned its way through the most provocative moment of the whole event.”

Speaking in clear, but careful, English, Hardun thanked the Presbyterians for the economic aid that helped Orthodox churches in his land rebuild social ministries after decades of bloody communist persecution. Only 20 years ago, he noted, there were 370 parishes left and, today, there are more than 1,500. He thanked the assembly for its kindness and hospitality.

However, the Orthodox priest ended by offering his take on the assembly’s debates as it prepared for another attempt to modernize Christian doctrines on sexuality. Shortly before his “greeting,” the commissioners voted 373-323 to approve, for the fifth time in two decades, the ordination of noncelibate gays and lesbians. Regional presbyteries must now approve the measure, which is the stage at which previous efforts were defeated — by increasingly smaller margins.

“Christian morality is as old as Christianity itself. It doesn’t need to be invented now. Those attempts to invent new morality look for me like attempts to invent a new religion — a sort of modern paganism,” said Hardun, drawing scattered applause.

“When people say that they are led and guided by the Holy Spirit to do it, I wonder if it is the same Holy Spirit that inspired the Bible, if it is the same Holy Spirit that inspires the Holy Orthodox Church not to change anything in Christian doctrine and moral standards. But if it is the same Spirit, I wonder … if there are different spirits acting in different denominations and inspiring them to develop in different directions and to create different theologies and different morals?”

The priest closed with a quote from St. Paul, urging the Presbyterians: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Later in that business day, a slim 51 percent of the assembly voted to defeat a proposal to redefine marriage as a holy covenant between “two people,” rather than one between “a man and a woman.”

General Assembly moderator Cindy Bolbach — an outspoken advocate of the gay-rights measures — offered no comment whatsoever about Hardun’s remarks when he left the podium, but quickly moved on to other business. However, before her election she urged her church not to fear the repercussions of an era of change. The denomination has lost half of its members since the 1960s.

“We have to learn how to proclaim the Gospel in a multicultural age where Christianity is no longer at the center,” she said. “We have to learn how to tell people who have grown suspicious of institutions why an institution like the P.C. (U.S.A.) can be of value to them … And we have to accept the loss of the church we have always known — as the church transforms itself into something new.”

Terry Mattingly directs the Washington Journalism Center at the Council for Christian Colleges and Universities. Contact him at tmattingly@cccu.org or www.tmatt.net.

July 22 ~ Mary Magdalene, Myrrhbearer & Equal-to-the-Apostles

Saint Mary was from Magdala in Galilee on the Sea of Tiberias, and for this was named Magdalene. When the Lord Jesus cast out seven demons from her, from which she had been suffering, she became His faithful and inseparable disciple, following Him and ministering unto Him even to the time of His crucifixion and burial. Then, returning to Jerusalem together with the rest of the Myrrh-bearers, she prepared the fragrant spices for anointing the body of the Lord. And on the Lord’s day they came very early to the tomb, even before the Angels appeared declaring the Resurrection of the Lord. When Mary Magdalene saw the stone taken away from the tomb, she ran and proclaimed it to Peter and John. And returning immediately to the tomb and weeping outside, she was deemed worthy to be the first of the Myrrh-bearers to behold the Lord arisen from the dead, and when she fell at His feet, she heard Him say, “Touch Me not.” After the Lord’s Ascension, nothing certain is known concerning her. Some accounts say that she went to Rome and later returned to Jerusalem, and from there proceeded to Ephesus, where she ended her life, preaching Christ. Although it is sometimes said that Saint Mary Magdalene was the “sinful woman” of the Gospel, this is nowhere stated in the tradition of the Church, in the sacred hymnology, or in the Holy Gospels themselves, which say only that our Lord cast seven demons out of her, not that she was a fallen woman. “Madeleine” is a form of Magdalene.

Psalm of Repentance

By Br. Victor-Antoine d’Avila-Latourrette

Lord, hear my voice.
Let your ears be attentive
to the voice of my supplication!
If you, O Lord, should mark iniquities,
Lord, who could stand?
But there is forgiveness with you,
So that you may be revered.
Psalm 130: 1-4

Psalm 130, commonly called De Profundis, is usually associated with the Office for the Dead or the funeral liturgy. It is also prayed daily in Byzantine Vespers. Yet, it is above all a prayer that opens new horizons, for it is a prayer that expresses conversion. Conversion is a long and arduous road, a road that demands all the inner energies of our being as we seek to traverse it. Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord. The more our cry leaps out from the depths of our misery, the more honest the cry and the more genuine our heart’s attitude. It is then when we find who and what we truly are.

Often, prayer tends to be from the lips, from the mind, or from a sheer act of our will, and not always from the depths of our hearts. It is painful to descend into our own hearts, to rise finding things there that would make us uncomfortable. Frequently we avoid the prayer of the heart to protect ourselves from true self-knowledge, vulnerabilities, and misery.

Psalm 130 is a learning vehicle that teaches us to pray from the depths of our hearts, from the deepest center of our being. As we descend into that abyss, we discover it to be a place in which the vital functions of feeling, sense, and intelligence converge. Furthermore, we discover the heart to be a wide open space that explores all eternal possibilities, such as the mystery of a final encounter with God. Paradoxically, as we begin to uncover God’s presence in our hearts and embark upon praying from there, we find ourselves containing all the realities that are woven into our daily existence: joy, suffering, fear, longing, love, hate, hope, surrender, fulfillment, death, and life. All these complex human realities are deeply rooted in the soil of our hearts, and as we try to pray and relate to God in intimate friendship, we incorporate all of them into our prayer. They express to God who we are. We carry them, burdensome as they may sometimes be, to the throne of all mercy, crying all along in supplication: Let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleading.

From: Blessings of the Daily, A monastic Book of Days

Family Reunion

If you follow me on Twitter or Facebook, then you know for the last week I have been away in Nashville for a family reunion. What an amazing family I have. We have people in our family who have overcome some pretty serious stuff. Two of them have look cancer in the face and beat it back. We have single moms who are making it work and raising wonderful kids. All the regular family stuff but there are mine and I am so proud of all of you and proud to be part of this family. Times have not always been easy for our family and this year has really been difficult, but we survived because we have each other. We had 5 generations of people there from all over the country aged from 87 all the way down to, I think, 7 weeks. What a great time.

We started planning more than a year ago and it was hard to really believe that the time was here, and before we knew it, it was time to head back home with many fond memories and renewed friendships. I have to give a big shout out to my cousin Jimmie and his great wife Christi. The stepped up and made this reunion great. Also, Facebook played a large role. Usually at these things we spend the first few days getting to know each other. But thanks to Facebook we had already done that so we just got right to being together and having fun.

In the weeks leading up to the reunion my mother had a mild heart attack and found herself in hospital. We were not even sure if she would be able to go. Word went out on Facebook and the entire family was praying, as well as other people all over the world. This gave me a new perspective on how important family is.

One of the hardest things of coming to the reunion was that it was the same weekend as our Annual Church Festival. I really did not want to miss the festival, but we do that every year and the family only gets together every 5 years or so. As the years go by we start to loose members of the family so these times we have to spend with each other become very important.

I think as I get older family becomes more and more important to me. Now I have two families, my family and my church family and they are both important to me.

I have to say a little something about this game we played. Some may be familiar with it but it was the first time I had ever seen or played it. The game is called “corn hole” and it is a blast! The object is to put a bean bag into a hole 27 feet away. Not as easy as it might sound. So we set up a little competition with brackets, thanks Tom, and everything. Each night was played, and laughed, and had a great time just being together. On the final day we had the championship and although I tried my best, it was not good enough and I lost the final round. We had some great fun kidding about the game and loosing and the trophy is one for the books! Special thanks to Peggy and Roger for the game.

The day time was spent in sight seeing around Nashville and the evenings were spent with family. Just sitting around, breaking bread together, and enjoying one another. There is nothing better then sharing a meal that everyone had a hand in preparing. Each family brought something and there was plenty to go around. I will cherish these times for the rest of my life.

Saturday night we began the long process of saying goodbye. Some we will see again soon and other we won’t see again until we all meet for the next reunion. We all have Facebook so we will stay in contact with each other much better than in years past. Let us hope that is will not be another 40 years till I see some of the family again.

To those of you who were there, it was a week I will never forget, to those of you who were not there, you were all missed and maybe next time you will be able to come. And to those we lost, we love you and miss all of you. You were there in spirit and in our stories and we will never forget you.

The moral of the story is, take time and spend it with family. Some of us have bad relationships with family. Mend those broken fences before it is too late. Once they are gone you will never get that time back. If there are family members you have not seen or talked with in some time, be the bigger person and make it happen. If you need to apologize for something, just suck it up and do it. Time is short and they will not be with us forever.

MCFL State PAC Endorses Tim Cahill for Governor

Boston- Madeline McComish, Chairman of MCFL State Political Action Committee, today announced that the MCFL State PAC has endorsed State Treasurer, Tim Cahill, for Governor in the November election.

Tim Cahill will be an outstanding advocate for the unborn, the disabled, and the elderly. He will bring commonsense solutions to protecting their rights and their lives. Cahill holds pro-life positions on all aspects of the issue, from abortion funding to informed consent, to partial birth abortion and parental consent. Very important also is his opposition to Physician Assisted Suicide which is currently being proposed in the state legislature, according to McComish.

She added, Currently pro-life people across the state are collecting signatures to repeal Obamacare. They welcome Tim Cahills pledge to opt out of the abortion funding in Obamacare. People remember that Cahill was the first to point out that Romneycare in Massachusetts will go bankrupt in four years, thus subjecting everyone in the state to rationing and denial of care. The other gubernatorial candidates have publicly stated their support for the pro-choiceposition. In other words, they support abortion and take anti-life positions on the other life issues.”

MCFL State PAC is in the process of contacting pro-life people across the state and will mobilize more than 100,000 activists in Massachusetts in support of Cahill.

20 July ~ Elias the Prophet

Elias of great fame was from Thisbe or Thesbe, a town of Galaad (Gilead), beyond the Jordan. He was of priestly lineage, a man of a solitary and ascetical character, clothed in a mantle of sheep skin, and girded about his loins with a leathern belt. His name is interpreted as “Yah is my God.” His zeal for the glory of God was compared to fire, and his speech for teaching and rebuke was likened unto a burning lamp. From this too he received the name Zealot. Therefore, set aflame with such zeal, he sternly reproved the impiety and lawlessness of Ahab and his wife Jezebel. He shut up heaven by means of prayer, and it did not rain for three years and six months. Ravens brought him food for his need when, at God’s command, he was hiding by the torrent of Horrath. He multiplied the little flour and oil of the poor widow of Sarephtha of Sidon, who had given him hospitality in her home, and when her son died, he raised him up. He brought down fire from Heaven upon Mount Carmel, and it burned up the sacrifice offered to God before all the people of Israel, that they might know the truth. At the torrent of Kisson, he slew 450 false prophets and priests who worshipped idols and led the people astray. He received food wondrously at the hand of an Angel, and being strengthened by this food he walked for forty days and forty nights. He beheld God on Mount Horeb, as far as this is possible for human nature. He foretold the destruction of the house of Ahab, and the death of his son Ohozias; and as for the two captains of fifty that were sent by the king, he burned them for their punishment, bringing fire down from Heaven. He divided the flow of the Jordan, and he and his disciple Elisseus passed through as it were on dry land; and finally, while speaking with him, Elias was suddenly snatched away by a fiery chariot in the year 895 B.C., and he ascended as though into heaven, whither God most certainly translated him alive, as He did Enoch (Gen. 5:24; IV Kings 2: 11). But from thence also, after seven years, by means of an epistle he reproached Joram, the son of Josaphat, as it is written: “And there came a message in writing to him from Elias the Prophet, saying, Thus saith the Lord God of David thy father, Because thou hast not walked in the way,” and so forth (II Chron. 21:12). According to the opinion of the majority of the interpreters, this came to pass either through his disciple Elisseus, or through another Prophet when Elias appeared to them, even as he appeared on Mount Tabor to the disciples of Christ (see Aug. 6).

Forgiveness

I have written on this topic before but I don’t think we can ever talk about the topic of forgiveness.

Last year, a couple was stopped on the side of the road to change a tire on their camper. A young man was coming up the highway from a concert and, although we are not sure what happened but he ended up swerving off the road and hitting and killing both of the people on the side of the road.

The remarkable thing about this story is the day the young man was sentenced for this the family members spoke about how they forgave him for this. I am amazed at the capacity of people to forgive others. I am not sure I would be able to do that. Often times we forget about the victims of things like this. Not only the ones killed but those that are left behind on both sides of the issue.

A few years ago, a gunman opened fire on students and faculty at Virginia Tech. Part of my training is in crisis counseling so I was sent to the Tech to work with the students there. On the day we arrived we found the memorial in the center of the campus. Each person killed had their name and a candle. As we worked our way around the circle the last name was for the killer himself. Yes the killer was a victim as well, a different sort of victim yes, but a victim none the less.

Restorative Justice is about putting people together who are the victims of crime with the person who committed the crime. Part of the idea is for forgiveness to happen. Hatred is a horrible thing and it eats away at the soul of the person who is filled with it. The idea is to bring the people together to tell their stories. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting there is a difference. Forgiveness is for us, not necessarily for the person who committed the crime. If we can release and let go of that anger we can, and I hate this phrase, move on with our life. This is not easy, and not for everyone.

Much more energy is used in maintaining hatred then in not hating. If something has happened in your life and you have not forgiven the person, give it a try. I can almost guarantee that you will feel better.

One word at a Time ~ Summer

It is interesting that this is the word this time around as I am on Vacation with my family in Tennessee. Summer is what that time is for. As clergy I am on the go most of the year and things tend to slow down some in the summer and it is a time to re-charge my batteries and I also use this time of the year to plan for the fall and winter.

During the summer months I usually preach on one topic or a theme or try and expand on a topic and this summer I am preaching on Church and what it means to be church.

So I am on vacation with my family. We are having a family reunion here in Tennessee and many of my cousins are here. We do this every few years and it is a great time to meet up and renew friendships that have long since gone dormant. I have been reacquainted with cousins that I have not seen in 40 years. Family has become very important this last year.

This has not been a great year for my extended family with a few deaths and the older generation is having health problems. Family is very important and we should try and spend as much time with family as we can. They are the only family that we have and when they are gone they are gone.

Summer is a great time for just kicking back and relaxing. The tempo seems to slow much more in the summer but activity seems to increase. This year I have put a garden in and that requires work and preparing for this vacation was work as well.

The summer is also a time for church meetings. My Diocese meets every two years during the July 4th weekend. This year was the year. So we set off to Chicago for the meeting. What a wonderful time this was to be with the others and talk about all of the things going on in the Diocese.

So take time this summer to slow down and smell the roses. Take it easy and spend time with the family.

Food Inc

Many readers will recall that this year I have planted a garden. If you are one of my followers on Facebook then you will be able to see the progress of said garden. I have not harvested anything yet but soon, I hope a bumper crop will be produced. Hope springs eternal they say.

Yesterday, Fr. Greg and I went off on another one of our adventures and drove over to Hardwick, Massachusetts to the Hardwick Coop. Kind of like a feed store if you are familiar with that concept. But it was a large hardware, nursery, pet food, all types of stuff place that was kind of cool. You can join the coop and receive discounts and dividends at the end of the year or you can just shop for good stuff.

On the way back to the Village we stopped by to see Fr. Ken. He has an interesting project underway with some of his parishioners. I may have written about it in the past but the short story is they are growing their own food. Not just veggies by the way, but the presently have 3 cows, Black Angus, nice looking things, and chickens. They had pigs, but they have gone off to the butcher, and meat birds that have all been taken care of if you get my meaning. They are attempting to unplug from the system. A half cow will feed a family of 4 for a year! The best part is you know what they are eating and where they have been.

During the trip Fr. Greg mentioned the movie Food Inc. I had never seen it before so I fired up the Netflix last night and watched it. WOW! My life has changed forever. I never really thought of where the food comes from. The interesting fact from the movie is that 75 gallons of diesel fuel is used to bring one cow to market. From birth to it’s arrival at the butcher 75 gallons per cow is being used. I should pause here to say this is on the large agro farms not the small operations like Fr. Ken has. I would suggest watching the movie.

Fr. Greg said yesterday that we receive the body and blood of Christ into our bodies each week (well we should anyway) why would we wish to put anything not as pure into our system. I am in way a Vegetarian nor am I advocating that. What I am advocating is buying local and supporting local farms. Is it more expensive, yes, is it better YES! Remember a generation ago things in the supermarket were only available if they were in season. Only buy fruits and veg that are in season. Plant a small garden, or a larger one if you have space. Use containers. You would be amazed what you can grow in containers. Shop at farmers markets. You support the small farmer but also buy things that are local. Ask your butcher where the food comes from and how it is raised. If they cannot answer move on and find one who can. Will it cost more, yes, is it healthier, yes.

I will leave you with this thought. The average meal will travel 1500 miles to your plate. That is too far. Think about it.

Spiritual Fatherhood

A very interesting discussion was taking place yesterday on Facebook. I posted several things from the conference, one liners if you will, and it sparked a mini conversation. This is what is good about social media. We can post topics and get a discussion going.

Anyway, on Sunday I was sitting at table during the banquet, with a priest who has been ordained for 43 years. Now that is remarkable on the face of it, but the most amazing thing is that he has been in the same parish for that long. He went to the church the year after I was born! Wow, and I thought six years was a long time.

So I posted that on Facebook and people started to ask questions about leaving a priest in one place for that long of a period of time. In the Roman Catholic world, six years is usually a term and then the priest might be transferred or stay for another six year term. That may not be that way everywhere But I believe it is the norm in the Archdiocese of Boston.

So I got to thinking about the rationale behind why we would leave someone in one place for an extended period of time. I thought about this topic last night and this morning at breakfast. In the Orthodox world we have a very deep sense of Spiritual Fatherhood. It takes time to get to know your people and that does not happen after only six years trust me.

In the Romanian tradition, not every priest is given faculties to hear confessions and to be a spiritual father. This is usually reserved to the parish priest and some Monks. The idea is you confess to your priest, or father as the case may be. This way over the course of a few years a relationship will start to form. My former spiritual father, who was my spiritual father for almost 10 years, knew me so well that he could tell if I was holding things back in confession. That relationship only builds over time.

Another quotation that put up on Facebook had to do with a presentation we had from Zoe for Life. Zoe for Life is the Pro Life organization in the Orthodox Church in North America. During the presentation, the woman mentioned that the Orthodox have a higher per capita rate of abortions than any other faith group. I will not get into the discussion on the validity of that statement as I was just passing on what I heard. So someone asked the Orthodox position on Therapeutic Abortion. Therapeutic Abortion is defined for this purpose as when the life of the mother would be in jeopardy.

The first thing one needs to understand is that the Orthodox do not really have official positions on issues as we do not have one single voice that speaks for the entire Orthodox Church. With that being said, there are some great writers on these moral issues in the Orthodox Church. The most recent writings suggest that allowance for an abortion if the life of the mother is in jeopardy would be allowed but with consultation not only from the medical people but also the Spiritual ones. Ones Spiritual Father should be consulted on all of these matters. There is also allowance for abortion for cases of rape and incest but it need to be within three days of intercourse.The Orthodox position is a very pastoral one and takes many things into consideration. The pastoral is never divorced from the daily life of an Orthodox Christian. Orthodox Christians should seek out guidance from their spiritual father for any major change in their life, job, home, marriage, etc.

With this very real sense of Spiritual Fathership in mind I feel this is why Orthodox Church should never grow larger than say 300 people. 300 is a number than can be managed well by one priest and you have the opportunity to really get to know your parishioners. The Shepherd knows his sheep and they know Him. If a church grows larger than that is starts to get very impersonal, or another priest will be to be brought on board and then the relationship gets even muddier.

Imagine in your family you had six kids. Well for some six kids might be too many to handle to we are going to bring in another father into the picture, not really the best scenario now is it. Divorced and remarried family often struggle with the roles of the parents new spouse in the child raising. Having a stable, I mean the person in one place for a long period of time, is what we should strive for. There are drawbacks of course, but the bottom line is the benefits outweigh the downside.

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