One word at a Time ~ Summer

It is interesting that this is the word this time around as I am on Vacation with my family in Tennessee. Summer is what that time is for. As clergy I am on the go most of the year and things tend to slow down some in the summer and it is a time to re-charge my batteries and I also use this time of the year to plan for the fall and winter.

During the summer months I usually preach on one topic or a theme or try and expand on a topic and this summer I am preaching on Church and what it means to be church.

So I am on vacation with my family. We are having a family reunion here in Tennessee and many of my cousins are here. We do this every few years and it is a great time to meet up and renew friendships that have long since gone dormant. I have been reacquainted with cousins that I have not seen in 40 years. Family has become very important this last year.

This has not been a great year for my extended family with a few deaths and the older generation is having health problems. Family is very important and we should try and spend as much time with family as we can. They are the only family that we have and when they are gone they are gone.

Summer is a great time for just kicking back and relaxing. The tempo seems to slow much more in the summer but activity seems to increase. This year I have put a garden in and that requires work and preparing for this vacation was work as well.

The summer is also a time for church meetings. My Diocese meets every two years during the July 4th weekend. This year was the year. So we set off to Chicago for the meeting. What a wonderful time this was to be with the others and talk about all of the things going on in the Diocese.

So take time this summer to slow down and smell the roses. Take it easy and spend time with the family.

Food Inc

Many readers will recall that this year I have planted a garden. If you are one of my followers on Facebook then you will be able to see the progress of said garden. I have not harvested anything yet but soon, I hope a bumper crop will be produced. Hope springs eternal they say.

Yesterday, Fr. Greg and I went off on another one of our adventures and drove over to Hardwick, Massachusetts to the Hardwick Coop. Kind of like a feed store if you are familiar with that concept. But it was a large hardware, nursery, pet food, all types of stuff place that was kind of cool. You can join the coop and receive discounts and dividends at the end of the year or you can just shop for good stuff.

On the way back to the Village we stopped by to see Fr. Ken. He has an interesting project underway with some of his parishioners. I may have written about it in the past but the short story is they are growing their own food. Not just veggies by the way, but the presently have 3 cows, Black Angus, nice looking things, and chickens. They had pigs, but they have gone off to the butcher, and meat birds that have all been taken care of if you get my meaning. They are attempting to unplug from the system. A half cow will feed a family of 4 for a year! The best part is you know what they are eating and where they have been.

During the trip Fr. Greg mentioned the movie Food Inc. I had never seen it before so I fired up the Netflix last night and watched it. WOW! My life has changed forever. I never really thought of where the food comes from. The interesting fact from the movie is that 75 gallons of diesel fuel is used to bring one cow to market. From birth to it’s arrival at the butcher 75 gallons per cow is being used. I should pause here to say this is on the large agro farms not the small operations like Fr. Ken has. I would suggest watching the movie.

Fr. Greg said yesterday that we receive the body and blood of Christ into our bodies each week (well we should anyway) why would we wish to put anything not as pure into our system. I am in way a Vegetarian nor am I advocating that. What I am advocating is buying local and supporting local farms. Is it more expensive, yes, is it better YES! Remember a generation ago things in the supermarket were only available if they were in season. Only buy fruits and veg that are in season. Plant a small garden, or a larger one if you have space. Use containers. You would be amazed what you can grow in containers. Shop at farmers markets. You support the small farmer but also buy things that are local. Ask your butcher where the food comes from and how it is raised. If they cannot answer move on and find one who can. Will it cost more, yes, is it healthier, yes.

I will leave you with this thought. The average meal will travel 1500 miles to your plate. That is too far. Think about it.

Spiritual Fatherhood

A very interesting discussion was taking place yesterday on Facebook. I posted several things from the conference, one liners if you will, and it sparked a mini conversation. This is what is good about social media. We can post topics and get a discussion going.

Anyway, on Sunday I was sitting at table during the banquet, with a priest who has been ordained for 43 years. Now that is remarkable on the face of it, but the most amazing thing is that he has been in the same parish for that long. He went to the church the year after I was born! Wow, and I thought six years was a long time.

So I posted that on Facebook and people started to ask questions about leaving a priest in one place for that long of a period of time. In the Roman Catholic world, six years is usually a term and then the priest might be transferred or stay for another six year term. That may not be that way everywhere But I believe it is the norm in the Archdiocese of Boston.

So I got to thinking about the rationale behind why we would leave someone in one place for an extended period of time. I thought about this topic last night and this morning at breakfast. In the Orthodox world we have a very deep sense of Spiritual Fatherhood. It takes time to get to know your people and that does not happen after only six years trust me.

In the Romanian tradition, not every priest is given faculties to hear confessions and to be a spiritual father. This is usually reserved to the parish priest and some Monks. The idea is you confess to your priest, or father as the case may be. This way over the course of a few years a relationship will start to form. My former spiritual father, who was my spiritual father for almost 10 years, knew me so well that he could tell if I was holding things back in confession. That relationship only builds over time.

Another quotation that put up on Facebook had to do with a presentation we had from Zoe for Life. Zoe for Life is the Pro Life organization in the Orthodox Church in North America. During the presentation, the woman mentioned that the Orthodox have a higher per capita rate of abortions than any other faith group. I will not get into the discussion on the validity of that statement as I was just passing on what I heard. So someone asked the Orthodox position on Therapeutic Abortion. Therapeutic Abortion is defined for this purpose as when the life of the mother would be in jeopardy.

The first thing one needs to understand is that the Orthodox do not really have official positions on issues as we do not have one single voice that speaks for the entire Orthodox Church. With that being said, there are some great writers on these moral issues in the Orthodox Church. The most recent writings suggest that allowance for an abortion if the life of the mother is in jeopardy would be allowed but with consultation not only from the medical people but also the Spiritual ones. Ones Spiritual Father should be consulted on all of these matters. There is also allowance for abortion for cases of rape and incest but it need to be within three days of intercourse.The Orthodox position is a very pastoral one and takes many things into consideration. The pastoral is never divorced from the daily life of an Orthodox Christian. Orthodox Christians should seek out guidance from their spiritual father for any major change in their life, job, home, marriage, etc.

With this very real sense of Spiritual Fathership in mind I feel this is why Orthodox Church should never grow larger than say 300 people. 300 is a number than can be managed well by one priest and you have the opportunity to really get to know your parishioners. The Shepherd knows his sheep and they know Him. If a church grows larger than that is starts to get very impersonal, or another priest will be to be brought on board and then the relationship gets even muddier.

Imagine in your family you had six kids. Well for some six kids might be too many to handle to we are going to bring in another father into the picture, not really the best scenario now is it. Divorced and remarried family often struggle with the roles of the parents new spouse in the child raising. Having a stable, I mean the person in one place for a long period of time, is what we should strive for. There are drawbacks of course, but the bottom line is the benefits outweigh the downside.

Congress ~ Divine Liturgy

Today, being Sunday, we celebrated the Divine Liturgy at the end of our Congress. Serving the Liturgy is a spiritual event for sure on any Sunday, but to be with the bishops and all the priests of the Archdiocese serving is something very special. On top of this, it is my anniversary today. Six years ago today I was ordained to the Holy Priesthood in this very cathedral so it was extra special.

Also today we had an ordination. Another event that does not happen all that much but is a wonderful event as a priest to participate in. I was surprised how emotional I was then all the priests were singing for the newly ordained. As well all exclaimed Axios! (Worthy) as each part of the vestment was put on him and to see him take his place at the Holy Altar. Simply amazing. The spiritual high has not worn off yet.

Also, as there were so many priests here this year, only the senior priests were at the altar. All of the us junior guys were outside of the Iconostasis but it was a wonderful event none the less. Liturgy is Liturgy no matter where you serve it. From the grandest Cathedrals to the back of a HUMVEE in Iraq, the presence of God is there.

La Multi Ani (Many Years) to the newly ordained priest Vasile!

After Liturgy we posted for the official picture of all the clergy, it’s like herding cats by the way, and then out side for the official picture of all those is attendance at the congress, again herding cats. Then off to more food.

I have said this before, but I do believe it to be true, this is one long meal separated by meetings. You have to experience it to understand what I am saying. Needless to say the food was great, and I think I have put on about 10 pounds. I need to start my walking program again when I get home.

During the meal we recognized several priests who have 25 years or more as priest. I was sitting at table with a priest from Canada who has been priest for 43 years and in the same parish all 43 of those years. Man I thought six years was a great accomplishment. It was also the 75th Anniversary of Bishop Polycarp (Morsca) ordination to the Episcopate as the first Romanian bishop in North America. Bishop Polycarp had a tragic life that ended with his imprisonment in Romania.

So the 77th Congress of the Romanian Orthodox Archdiocese in the Americas has come to a close. We meet again in 2 years in Montreal. People are already making plans. Hugs and kisses were exchanged and we have all gone our separate ways.

I board the train at 8:30pm to start my journey home.

John Adams

On this 4th of July I pause with a few thoughts on John Adams.

I have been watching the HBO miniseries of the same name and one of the things you learn straight off is that John Adams, as were all of our founding fathers, flawed. He had doubts and anxieties like we all do.

Our founding fathers were deists for the most part not what one would really call Christian if we were to use today’s terminology. Yes they felt that people had God given divine rights but that was about as far as they were willing to take God. John Adams was a Unitarian as were most people in New England at the time.

There is one scene where Adams, Jefferson, and Franklin are together discussing the Declaration of Independence. Jefferson had written something along the lines of We hold these truths to be Divine. Franklin thought that too preachy so they changed it to what we hear today, self evident.

We need to be careful in how we think of the founders. Politics ruled the day and compromise was in full effect. Some even avoided the meeting when the vote was taken on Independence so they would not stand in the way. Independence was not a popular event and it was difficult to achieve.

Thank you John Adams and the others for all your hard work. God bless you for the risks you took both professional and personal for us to gain our freedom.

If you have not watched the series or read the book, I would recommend it to you. It really is wonderful.

Congress ~ Day 2

Usually we spend most of the time at these meetings hearing reports and voting on things. A few years back, we re-wrote the operating procedures of the Archdiocese and we needed to go through this document line by line. In the past we have debated the issue of re-unification with the other Romanian Diocese in North America. But none of that this year. Along with reports we have heard several presentations on topics like Bio-Ethics and Saturday’s topic 125th Anniversary of the Romanian Patriarchate.

Now I like history do I was all over this presentation but I can see where some would get rather bored with the whole thing. The speakers have kept their presentations short to allow for Q & A after. If you have ever been to an academic conference, usually one speaker has 45 minutes to present their topic then another will respond for say 25 or 30 mins then Q & A. So this was a little different. I will post an article once I return home on this topic.

After the presentation we had an update on the re-unification with the other Romanian Diocese. The long and the short of it is we have been talking about this for some 18 years and I think it will be another 18 before anything happens. We are trying to repair a rift that happened in the 1940’s and the problem is many of the people are still alive and remember the nasty stuff that took place. It is often said that history cannot be written for 100 years after the event has happened. That way everyone will be dead, and then the truth can come out. My opinion is, with the on going discussion about Orthodox Unity in America, this discussion needs to be put on the back burner. We have wasted far too much time and resources with people that really do not want to have anything to do with us. There is not enough room, nor do I understand all of the details well enough to write about them here. Suffice it say it is all about trust.

Lunch came after this presentation. It is always good to schedule a controversial topic right before lunch. It is amazing how fast people come to consensus when the smell of lunch is wafting up the stairs into the cathedral where we were meeting.

I will pause here for an explanation. We hold out meetings in the church. We begin with prayer to the Holy Spirit for Guidance, and then the meetings begin. I have often heard that meetings should not take place in the church. However I disagree. Church meetings of this kind are not less a liturgical action then the Divine Liturgy is itself. Some have said if we held this meeting in a hotel ball room or other such venue people would be able to speak their mind. Exactly my point! We need to remember who we are and what it is we are discussing. As Christians we need to approach every issue form this point. Did the discussion get, what’s the phrase, hot, yes. But it was always respectful. These meeting very much belong in the church.

The budget was next on the docket. I was amazed at how little we pay our bishops. We cover all of their expenses but their actual salary is very low. We need to do better. The budget includes a 10% increase over last year and will remain the same for two years. If you divide this by all of the churches in the Archdiocese it works out to an extra $200 a year. I am sorry but we make that at the bar at one of our functions, but I was amazed as person after person approached to microphone to complain about how the Archdiocese was bleeding them dry! Our church budget at St. Michael’s for the entire year is about $65,000 includes $2,000 that we have been assessed by the Archdiocese. So next year our assessment will be $2,200 I am sorry but that is not a big deal. Thanks be to God we are one of the more financially stable parishes and I believe we can afford this. We are also getting much more for our money in return then we ever have before. Budget passed with one abstention (I will never understand people who abstain. Stand up and be counted) off to lunch.

During lunch we listened to a presentation on the Pro Life activities of the Orthodox Church in North America. one thing one needs to keep in mind is that we are a church that does not have a single head that speaks for it. Each Patriarchate is free to interpret things, following the Orthodox way of interpretation. So it is difficult to answer questions like, what is the Orthodox position on Abortion. If you listen to the speaker we had on Friday, abortion is not allowed under an circumstance. However, that is not the current thinking. We leave much of the decision to the situation. Someone asked me on Facebook how the church would approach a certain case. My response was I could not answer because I did not know all the details of the situation. The Orthodox Church has a very intense sense of Spiritual Fathership. Parishioners confess to their priest so the priest get to know the people so we can help in situations like this. One of the benefits of small communities is we really do know all of the parishioners. I know where and how they live and I have been to all of their homes. I hear their confessions, I know their fears and their desires. The term father is used because in a very real sense, the priest is the father of the community. I am supposed to have the same relationship with my parishioners that a father has with their children. (I will leave aside the discussion about bad and absent fathers) So the end of the conversation is these are not easy questions to answer.

After Lunch more reports on all of the activities of the Archdiocese. We break the Archdiocese down into Deaneries and in between Congresses we hold Deanery Assemblies. Each of the Deans gave a brief description of the Assembly and clergy meetings. It is always nice to see what is going on in the Archdiocese. Reports on education, youth, and the Ladies Society rounded out the presentations. We elected a new Archdiocese Council that will lead the Archdiocese for the next two years.

With a few closing words from His Eminence, we closed the 77th Congress of the Archdiocese. I feel that we accomplished much and have a very good idea of what is going on in the life of the Archdiocese. Each parish is different but we deal with the same issues. I will have to digest all of this, and these blogs have helped to do this, and then I will present the information to the parish.

Vespers was held and I once again had the honor of serving with the Bishop. Then Dinner and entertainment. The food has been great and it is all being prepared by the cooks of the Cathedral. I will guess there are 15 of us here and they provide two meals each day served, that is not easy. Thanks to everyone involved for all of your hard work.

Sunday Liturgy and an ordination. More on that next.

Archdiocese Congress ~ Day 1

Actually this is day 2 yesterday the clergy of the Archdiocese met with the Archbishop. We gather ever 2 years as a diocese, well most of us do anyway, we spend the first day with the Archbishop discussing pastoral issues and trying to resolve some things. These are very sensitive issues so I am not at liberty to discuss them here, but let me just say, no matter what size parish you are in we all seem to have the same issues. We spoke mainly about how to deal with certain moral issues, and I will leave it at that.

Today we began the Congress with the Divine Liturgy. As is the custom, the Bishops and the deans along with the monastics serve this liturgy. This was the first year I served this liturgy with the monastics and our bishops. What a blessed event. I love serving the Liturgy with other clergy and we see the fullness of the church when our bishops are with us as well. I noticed this year much more English was being used not only in the Liturgy but in the Congress itself. The church is maturing here in America.

We are a very diverse Archdiocese with parishes not only in the USA but in Canada and some in Brazil and Argentina. So we have Romanian, English, French, Spanish, and Portuguese speaking people very diverse. Mostly the people speak Romanian and there are 5 of us who do not speak Romanian. In the past we have been somewhat left out of things, but this year all of the reports were printed in both Romanian and English. The Romanian parts of the Congress are being translated for us so I feel very much part of things. This is a good thing by the way. We have come a long way.

After lunch, I have often said these gatherings are one long meal separated by meetings, we have a conference on Bio-Ethics. Now I am no bio-ethicist, but this was a pretty weak presentation. It has left the pastoral out of the equation all together. Most moral issues are not cut and dried and need to be handled from an academic as well as a pastoral position. It is not enough to tell someone you can’t do this and you can’t do that. We need to be pastoral in everything that we do. He was very hard line on somethings, and got the ladies quite riled up with some remarks in answer to a question on feminism. One of the things you will learn about Orthodoxy is that we do not really have official positions on many of these issues. Most of the jurisdictions disagree and that is one of the challenges of Orthodox Unity in this country is unity of mind on these issues. Unlike the Roman Catholic Church, we do not have a single head that speaks for the Orthodox Church and the Patriarchs speak for their individual church so it is not always the same.

After a break we had some presentations and reports from the various departments in the Archdiocese to include our bishops. These are always interesting days as we discuss things going on in the Archdiocese.

More reports tomorrow and on Sunday the Divine Liturgy and an ordination. More on that tomorrow.

Monastic Vows ~ Stability

I have changed the subject of this article from the Evangelical Counsels to Monastic Vows. The Evangelical Counsels consist of poverty, chastity, and obedience. A forth vow is somewhat unique to monastic life. All Orthodox Monks take this, but I believe that Benedictines are the only Western Monastics who take the vow of stability.

Stability is not an easy thing now a days. I read once, that a person can plan to change jobs more than 10 times in their life and will move at least 3 times if not more. Stability is not something that our world teaches us. We are far too fast to pick up and move rather than stay where we are.

Monastic life is counter to everything that life could throw at us. From the three vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience now to this fourth one of stability. Through this vow we say that we will stay in the monastery for life. We will dwell with this community that God has brought together through thick and thin. I believe it is the hardest of the vows to deal with and to keep.

We live in a society that is disposable. When something breaks, rather than fix it if it can be fixed, we throw it away and buy something new. If our marriage is not working, rather than do the hard work necessary to fix it, we get divorced, unwanted pregnancy, same thing throw it away. And the story continues. The action of stability forces us to remain where we are for as long as we live.

When I entered the Benedictine monastery all those years ago, I made this vow of stability. Again, I believe this is hardest of the vows to keep. Imagine living with a group of people that you would not necessarily choose on your own. We strive in the monastic life to be there for each other and that requires getting along. Just like any family or any relationship it does not always work. Sometimes people are such a disruption to the normal operation of things. Some how you need to stay there and work it out. I left the community not because of the community but for other reasons. There were times during my monastic journey that it would have been easy to leave because of the community but it was the community the kept me there. Stability will imply that the monastic is content with the place God has brought them. It is also a sharing of ones life with another, or with many as is the case in larger communities.

Writing on stability in his book Monastic Practices, Charles Cummings has this to say about the role of stability in the monastery. “Monks and nun stay where they are for the sake of Christ, and not because of iron chains, bars, grilles, or high walls and not even because of socio-psychological chains that might be stringer than iron and stone. Fear is the strongest chain, but St. Benedict wanted monastic stability to depend on no chains but the love of Christ.” He continues, “This promise can be seen as the monastic way of saying yes to God’s will for me in the place where I believe he has placed me and with the task I believe he has laid on my shoulders…”

The bottom line to all of this, if there is one, is that the monastic life is not something we ever complete. Monasticism is a life long journey, as is our Christian life, if we rush we will stumble and fall. We must take our time and dwell with God and sit in his presence where we can soak Him in and He can begin to make that change in us that we desire. That’s what brings us to the monastery in the first place. If conversion is not what brings us then we need to find it in another place.

On the Train

As I mentioned in my previous post I am off on another adventure on the train. I am headed to Chicago to the Congress of the Romanian Archdiocese. Every other year, clergy and lay people, gather as a Congress to discuss church matters. We do not decide doctrine or anything like that, but we look at the practice of our faith from an American perspective. We will hear reports from out bishops and the various department heads. This year we will also have presentations on Bioethics and the question of Autocephaly. This should be an interesting Congress. Since I have been involved we have never had such an agenda and I am looking forward to this weekend. It is also the 6th anniversary of my ordination to the Holy Priesthood and I will be able to participate in the ordination of a new priest.

Some thoughts on the train trip. The trip from Boston to New York was uneventful although it seems I book a coach class seat rather than my usual business class seat. I chose to ride in what is called the quiet car. This is the car where cell phone use is not allowed and conversations are kept to a minimum. This is a good place to ride if you wish to read to nap on the journey. I did both. Well that is until we reached New Haven, Connecticut. It seems some people do not understand Quiet Car. Oh well what is one to do.

Whilst in New York, at Penn Station, I noticed something rather odd. Amtrak has it’s own police force. As far as I know they have had this for a long time. They patrol the stations and what not and other such things. The TSA is also in the stations as well as the NYC Police. The thing that struck me was the Amtrak police man walking around with an automatic weapon strapped on his chest! This surprised me. I am all for security but this is a little much. It reminded me of my first trip to Romania in 1992 and seeing the armed guards at the airport. Rather scary if you ask me.

So I have been pondering this whilst on the rest of my journey and posted something on my Facebook wall about it. It harkens back to that terrible day in 2001 when the world changed forever. The terrorists have caused us to change our entire way of life. No longer is flying fun, not that it ever was, but now it is a hassle. Take off your shoes, get an x-ray, perhaps the rubber glove comes out… Again I am all for security but our entire life has changed. Wiretaps, locking people up, new rules on the ability of the police to pull other people over on the suspicion of being illegal. The terrorists never have to blow anything up again, they have won, America has changed and will never be the same. Sorry if I am rambling here but it is true.

Again I am all for security but we must realize that our life is now very different. Not our own doing but forces of evil from the outside that are bent on destroying us. We cannot let them win. Just incase you are confused I blame the terrorists and only the terrorists for the state we are in.

I will write more as I ponder more.

Town Election, Birthday, and off to Chicago

Yesterday was the Annual Town Election in Southbridge. I was not surprised to see the low turnout, about 1,700 out of a population of some 17,000. I guess people either just don’t care anymore or they were getting their hair done, not sure why people don’t vote anymore. We have some big issues in this Town, and small issues that people would like to make big, and people don’t turn out. Oh well. Congrats to those who ran and won and congrats to those who ran. You put yourself out there and you need to be thanked for your desire to serve the Town. Although you did not win I hope you continue to make your voices heard.

Yesterday was the feast of my Nativity (my birthday) and I was overwhelmed by all the wishes and prayers I received on Facebook. It is truly a great community and I wish to thank everyone for their wishes and prayers. I would also like to thank everyone for prayers for my Mother. She has had a little health issue this week but she is on the mend and should be home from Hospital today. Actually she is on the phone with my Dad right now.

Speaking of today, I am off to Chicago on the train today to attend the Congress of the Romanian Archdiocese. In the Orthodox Church this is the legislative branch if you will of the church. It is made up of the priest and two lay delegates from each church in the Archdiocese. We used to meet yearly but now we meet every other year. We have a series of presentations and will vote on the budget and various other things. I believe we have wireless so I will try and live blog, because I am sure you all will be on the edge of your seats waiting for news. I will also live blog my train journey as I did the last time.

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