The Greatest of These…

“And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13

As we enter the second week of the Season of Advent, our thoughts and attention turn from hope to love. As you already know, love is central to my preaching and my ministry, as I believe it is central to the Gospel and our lives as followers of Jesus Christ.  For me, the love of others has to flow from our lives as Christians, and it has to move us to care for others, especially the least among us.

In St. Paul’s letter to the Church at Corinth that I quoted above, Paul is summarizing the faith that we must have. As Christians, we live in hope, hope for a better tomorrow, but a tomorrow that we have to help usher in. We have to have faith, for if we do not have faith, we have nothing. But, Paul tells the Church that the greatest of all of these is love. Earlier in the 13th Chapter, Paul says this:

“If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” 1 Corinthians 13:2

We can do everything and obtain all the riches and power on earth, but if we do not have love, we are nothing. Love is central to everything that we do, and every action that we take, every decision that we make has to come from a position of love.

Apart from Paul, we have God as the supreme example of what love is all about.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

So deep was God’s love for his creation that he gave up his Son, not to come and pronounce judgment on all of us, but to show us the way to eternal life. And that way is straightforward:

Love God, Love Neighbor, Love our Enemies, Love Each Other, and Love Yourself! Love is the answer.

The Power of Saying No

Saying no is one of the hardest things I have had to learn to do. As someone in ministry, I want to be available to everyone but, that usually leads to overextending, and then bad things start to happen. Harnessing the power of saying no is a lesson we all should learn. When we say yes, we are also saying no to something. Ask yourself these five questions to determine if your priorities are straight.

1. What do I like about saying, yes? When does saying yes, impact me negatively? (Make two lists)

2. What am I afraid of when it comes to saying no? When does it feel wonderful to say no? (Make two lists)

3. Where do I need to say no in my life, and what would that feel like?

4. What gets in the way of me saying no? (Make a list)

5. If I say “No” more, would I be able to…

Think about these questions, make the lists, and begin to harness the power of saying no.

If you need help learning to say no, check out my Coaching Page and let’s begin a conversation.

5 Questions to Inspire a Habit of Gratitude

Gratitude is a wonderful habit that increases our mental, emotional, and spiritual health.  Here are five questions to help you get inspired to create a meaningful habit of gratitude:

1. What stops me from being thankful or grateful?

2. When I feel thankful, how do I feel differently about myself, life, and the world?

3. On bad days, how could I still be tankful?  (think small!)

4. How could I express my gratitude to those around me?

5. How could I begin to cultivate a larger habit of gratitude and thankfulness in my life? (Make a list of ideas.)

This week, ponder these questions and then chose one action to move forward with in the coming weeks.

Advent Scripture Journey

Advent is the time of preparation not just for the family gatherings at Christmas but spiritual preparation for the coming of the Savior of the world Jesus Christ. Taking time to prepare ourselves spiritually is vitally important and is often the most overlooked practice of the Advent Season. I want to help with that.

I recently came across a MEME on Facebook with the title “A New Christmas tradition.” This tradition is a journey through the Gospel of Luke during the 24 days leading up to the birth of Jesus Christ. Beginning on December 1st, read one chapter from the Gospel of Luke, and continue for the next 24 days which will bring you to Christmas Eve. In reading these chapters, when you wake on Christmas morning, you will understand Who and Why we celebrate.

I mentioned that I wanted to help. If you send me an email, I will add you to my list of people that I will be posting a chapter a day from the Gospel of Luke starting on December 1st. This daily email will make the process of the journey that much easier to participate in since it will be there in your mailbox each morning. I promise I won’t spam you and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Please join me on this Advent Scripture Journey and let us reclaim Advent as a time of Spiritual Preparation.

Wisdom Wednesday: Dealing With Toxic People

We all have toxic people in our lives. You know them, the ones that drain you or minimize you. They are the ones that deplete and sap your energy, so you have nothing left. Toxic people undermine and consume us – but only when we allow them to have power over us.

Life Coach and New York Times best-selling author Brendan Burchard has this to say about toxic people in our lives:

Toxic people will not be changed by the alchemy of your kindness. Be kind, but move on swiftly and let life be their educator.

We need to surround ourselves with people who lift us and support us. We need to surround ourselves with people who give us energy and not the people who take that energy away.

Here are five questions to ponder over the next few days. After you have thought about the answers to these questions, choose 1-3 actions you might take moving forward to help you deal with the toxic people in your lives.

1. Who energizes me in my life? How could I spend more time with them?

2. Who drains or minimizes me? How could I spend less time or spend time differently with them?

3. How do I allow people who drain me and deplete me?

4. How does it help me to remember that toxic people are in pain themselves?

5. What steps do I need to take with toxic people for my own esteem and peace of mind?

Need help answering any of these questions or what to get on the right path in dealing with the toxic people in your life? Check out my Life Coaching page for more information.

Prayer at the Dedication of the National Cemetery Gettysburg, Pennsylvania

Prayer at the
DEDICATION OF THE NATIONAL CEMETERY AT GETTYSBURG
by Reverend Thomas H. Stockton,
Chaplain of the House of Representatives
Thursday, November 19, 1863

O God our Father, for the sake of Thy Son our Savior, inspire us with Thy Spirit and sanctify us to the right fulfillment of the duties of this occasion.

We come to dedicate this new historic center as a National Cemetery.  If all departments of the one Government which Thou had ordained over our Union, and of the many Governments which Thou hast subordinated to our Union, be here represented; if all classes, relations, and interests of our blended brotherhood of people stand severally and thoroughly apparent in Thy presence; we trust that it is because Thou hast called us, that Thy blessing awaits us, and that Thy designs may be embodied in practical results of incalculable and imperishable good.

And so, with Thy holy Apostle, and with the Church of all lands and ages; we unite in the inscription: ‐ “Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort, who comforteth us in all our tribulations, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.”

In emulations of all angels, in fellowship with all saints, and in sympathy with all sufferers; in remembrance of Thy works, in reverence of Thy ways, and in accordance with Thy word; we laud and magnify Thine infinite perfections, Thy creative glory, Thy redeeming grace, Thy providential goodness, and the progressively richer and fairer developments of Thy supreme, universal, and everlasting administration.

In behalf of all humanity, whose ideal is divine, whose first memory is Thine image lost, and whose last hope is Thine image restored; and especially of our own nation, whose history has been so favored, whose position is so peerless, whose mission is so sublime, and whose future is so attractive; we thank Thee for the unspeakable patience of Thy compassion and the exceeding greatness of Thy loving kindness.  In contemplation of Eden, Calvary, and Heaven; of Christ in the Garden, on the Cross, and on the Throne; say more of Christ as coming again in all subduing power and glory; we gratefully prolong our homage.  By this Alter o Sacrifice, on this Field of Deliverance, on this Mount of Salvation, within the fiery and bloody line of these “munitions of rock,” looking back to the dark days of fear and trembling, and to the rapture of relief that came after; we multiply our thanksgivings, and confess our obligations to renew and perfect our personal and social consecration to Thy service and glory.

O, had it not been for God!  For lo! Our enemies – they came unresisted, multitudinous, mighty, flushed with victory, and sure of success.  They exulted on our mountains, they reveled in our valleys,; they feasted, they rested; they slept, they awaked;  they grew stronger, prouder, bolder every day; they spread abroad, they concentrated here; they looked beyond this horizon to the stores of wealth, to the haunts of pleasure, and to the seats of power, in our Capital and chief Cities.  They prepared to cast the chain of Slavery around the form of Freedom, binding life and death together forever.  Their premature triumph was the mockery of God and man.  One more victory; and all was theirs!  But, behind these hills was heard the feebler march of a smaller but still pursuing host.  Onward they hurried, day and night, for God and their country.  Foot‐sore, way‐worn, hungry, thirsty, faint – but not in heart, they came to dare all to bear all, and to do all, that is possible to heroes.  And Thou didst sustain them!  At first they met the blast on the plain, and bent before it, like the trees in a storm.  But then, led by Thy hand to these hills, they took their stand upon the rocks and remained as firm and immovable as they.  In vain were they assaulted.  All art, all violence, all desperation, failed to dislodge them.  Baffled, bruised, broken, their enemies recoiled, retired, and disappeared.  Glory to God, for this rescue!  But, O, the slain!  In the freshness and fullness of their young and manly life; with each sweet memories of father and mother, brother and sister, wife and children, maiden and friends; they died for us.  From the coasts beneath the Eastern star, from the shores of Northern lakes and rivers, from the flower of Western prairies, and from the homes of the Midway, and the Border, they came here to die for us and for mankind.  Alas, how little we can do for them!  We came with the humility of prayer, with the pathetic eloquence of venerable wisdom, with the tender beauty of poetry, with the plaintive harmony of music, with the honest tribute of our Chief Magistrate, and with all this honorable attendance: but our best hope is in Thy blessing.  O, Lord, our God! O, Father, bless us!  Bless the bereaved, whether present, or absent; bless our sick and wounded soldiers and sailors; bless all our rulers and people; bless our army and navy; bless the efforts of the suppression of the rebellion; and bless all the associations of this day; and place, and scene, forever.  As the trees are not dead, though their foliage is gone, so our heroes are not dead, though their forms have fallen.  In their proper personality, they are all with Thee.  And the spirit of their example is here.  It fills the air, it fills our hearts.  And, long as time shall last, it will hover in the skies, and rest on this landscape; and the pilgrims of our own land, and from all lands, will thrill with its inspiration and increase and confirm their devotion to liberty, religion and God. Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name.  Thy kingdom come.  Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.  Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil; for Thine is the kingdom, the power, and the glory, forever.  Amen.

Sermon: Infinite Possibilities

Luke 21:5-19

It is said that most people can remember exactly where they were when they received news of some kind. These moments of recollection often involve a tragedy of some sort.  Many of you remember where you were when you heard that President Kennedy had been shot. I am sure we all can remember where we were and what we were doing when we heard the first news of the events of September 11, 2001. I know I do.

But not all of these events have to be tragic. I can remember, as if it was yesterday, a crisp fall evening in 2004 when a short toss of a ball broke the “Curse of the Bambino,” and the Boston Red Sox won their first World Series in almost 90 years. These events leave a mark on us, but it is what we do with that mark that matters.

This morning we heard some very challenging words from Jesus concerning what we are to do when these types of events strike. Jesus is speaking of the destruction of the Temple, and his disciples ask two pertinent questions: When? What will be the sign? Jesus then goes on to describe three things that will happen in the future; imposters will come and try and trick the faithful; war and conflict will rage on; natural disasters will be prevalent. Jesus gives them some assurance that the “end times” are in the future and that they will not happen all at once. He also tells them that he does not know when it will happen; only God knows, so we really should not worry. But, and there is always a, but with Jesus, this will be an opportunity for us.

Jesus says in verse 13: “This will give you an opportunity to testify.” But he warns that our testimony should not be canned or rehearsed but should come naturally from a life spent living their testimony. In our rather stoic, New England, Yankee sense of religion, we do not like to speak about our faith. In many ways, this is a problem when we consider church growth. In a recent survey, 80% of people who come to a church for the first time come because someone has asked them to come. They did not find an ad in the Yellow Pages; they did not even read something on a church Facebook page, nope, someone asked them to come with them to church.

It is an exciting phenomenon to watch, people will go to a movie or out to dinner at a new place and after, they cannot wait to tell their friends about it. They post on Social Media, check-in, take pictures of their food, or their happy faces while eating that food, but when they come to church on Sunday, it’s as if they don’t want anyone to know. I encourage you to whip out your phone right now, come on, do it, open your Facebook app if you have it, and check-in that you are here. Take a picture, quote something from the sermon or a song, you are testifying!

But, we do not like to talk about our faith because we were taught that in polite society, you do not talk about politics or religion. But the problem with that is, we now do not know how to talk about politics or religion in polite society, in fact, I would suggest that the reason we no longer have a polite society is that we do not know how to talk about these topics.

These days religion is known for two things, what is wrong and who or what you should be afraid of. Some preachers love to talk about the “end times” because it makes people fearful, and when people are afraid, they will usually do whatever anyone in authority tells them to do. I do not spend much time reading the Book of Revelation, and I know for a fact, except for quoting a few verses here and there, I have never preached a sermon from that book. Revelation is, in my estimation, and incomprehensible book to the human mind, the one most taken out of context and is frequently used to bind up the faithful but to scare the life out of them.

But back to this idea of testimony. Jesus tells us in this passage that all of this bad stuff that is going to happen will allow us to testify, and I believe the time has come. You all know this, we are living in a world that devalues some human beings over others. Some churches go out of their way to make it know who is and who is not welcome in their place of “worship.” These are our opportunities to testify.

A few days ago, I was talking to some folks about my view of what Communion means. I have shared with you before that I believe that the bread and juice cease to be simple elements but that a change happens when we ask the Holy Spirit to come upon them. Their elemental nature remains the same, but the is a shift in their essence, and they are no longer just simple food that feeds us physically, but they become sanctified, and they feed us spiritually. In this discussion I mentioned that one of the reasons, it’s actually the number 1 reason, I left my previous denomination was the idea of closed Communion that only those deemed worthy by a set of rules, that no one follows, by the way, is worth to come to the table. My testimony is that this table is open to all people without the condition.

To put it simply, in a world where the church is known more for what we are against than what we are for, our testimony is that God loves you and that God welcomes you into his presence.

Our testimony needs to be the testimony of Paul in his Letter to the Romans:

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 8:38-39)

We begin each service with “God Moments.” These moments have touched me in such a way that wherever I go next, I am going to try and work these into the service. These are the moments when we share when we testify to what God is doing in our lives. It might be something as simple as passing a test or something a great as healing from some illness; it does not matter what it is; what matters is that God is still moving and acting in our lives, and we want to tell the world about it.

We have zero control over the future; what is going to happen is going to happen for the future is unknown to us. We cannot predict what will happen or when all we can do is live in the moment, care for one another in the moment and testify to what God is doing in our lives in the moment. And, invite someone to church!

Amen

Sermon: Transforming Love

Have you ever faced an obstacle so significant there was no way you thought you would be able to overcome it?  Have you ever placed an impediment to someone’s path to prevent them from something?  Today we heard the story of a person that overcame the most significant obstacle he faced, and it radically changed his life.

Let’s face it, life is full of obstacles, and that may not be a bad thing. When faced with those things that stand blocking us, we have a few choices, turn back, go around, or go over but, if what we desire is on the other side, we have no option but to overcome whatever is in our way.

Let’s set the scene of today’s encounter with Jesus.

Jesus is coming into Jericho. It is rather late in his ministry, and he is on his way to Jerusalem. Jericho is in the Jordan Valley on the West Bank. Today it is a Palestinian City with the Jordan River to the east and Jerusalem to the West. It is and was a rather large city, and word of Jesus had spread, and so crowds were gathering on the street to see him.

Zacchaeus is the Chief Tax Collector; he is very wealthy, and, as Scripture points out, he was short of stature. Because of his height, or lack thereof, he could not see when Jesus was coming down the road, so he needed a plan. He ran ahead a climbed a tree, not just any tree but a sycamore tree with low hanging branches, and there, he encountered Jesus.

Jesus, seeing this man in the tree, calls to him, “hurry down, for I must stay at your house.” As Jesus is saying this, all eyes follow Jesus’ gaze, and they see Zacchaeus, the dreaded Tax Collector, and the people start to murmur among themselves, “he has gone to be the guest of sinners!” They were outraged that Jesus would do this. How could anyone want to spend time with sinners?

But what drove Zacchaeus to do what he did?  He is the Chief Tax Collector and very rich, and by definition, he is a thief.  Tax Collectors worked for the Romans, the occupying force, and as such, they were looked upon poorly. Tax Collectors receive their wages from the Taxes they collected, so the more tax they collect, the more money they make, and the Chief Tax Collector was the richest of them all. But something happened to Zacchaeus, and he needed to make a change in his life.

Last week, we read the story of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector in the Temple. I cannot say for sure, but I do not think it is a mistake that these two stories follow on another. I believe that Zacchaeus is that Tax Collector and that he had a conversion experience in the Temple. Now, he needed to see Jesus for forgiveness. So he runs out of the Temple and climbs the tree because salvation is walking down the street.

Zacchaeus makes no confession other than what he makes in the Temple. Jesus sees him in that tree, sees his heart, and knows what is in that heart. The very act of Jesus, calling his name and staying at his home, was the forgiveness and reconciliation that Zacchaeus needs. Zacchaeus makes his penance, he gives half of his possessions to the poor and promises to makes restitution to anyone he has cheated, and I can only imagine that list is a long one. And with that, Jesus tells him that “Salvation has come to this house.” And they go off together.

But what of those left, those that started to murmur amongst themselves? They cannot understand how Jesus can do this; they are so blind in their rage that they did not see the confession and reconciliation taking place right before their eyes. Zacchaeus is no longer a sinner, in the broad sense of the word, of course, but their strict adherence to the law has blinded them to what happened right in front of them.

In a few moments, I will invite you to come to the table that is prepared for you. This communion table that is here before us is a table of radical welcome for all, not just for some. Through this mystery, we come together, regardless of our background or belief, to take the supper of the Lord. I have told you this before, when we pray over these elements they cease to be just simple bread and juice they become holy, and we are being called down out of our trees to break bread with Jesus.

I bring this up because last week, this sacrament was used not as a reminder of the love of Jesus that should bind us together but as a spear that is used to separate those who do not follow a specific set of rules. I cannot say how much this saddens me and disgusts me that this has happened, is still happening. Jesus Christ sat at the table with the man who was to deny him and the man who would betray him, and he served them his body and his blood knowing full well what they were going to do. I do not know where the arrogance comes from that makes people feel they have the power to be the judge of the grace of God!

We are all Zacchaeus with our heads bent low and pounding on our chests, “God be merciful to me a sinner.” We are all Zacchaeus when we run down the street, filled with joy to climb the tree to get a glimpse of Jesus as he passes by. We are all Zacchaeus when we realize that our lives need to change, and so we repent and promise to do better. But none of this would have happened if Jesus had not shown love that day on the street. Jesus looked up and saw a person filled with regret and offered him a place at the table, he did not shun him or turn his back on him or refuse to help him, he opened his arms wide with love and welcomed him in.

And so today I do the same. If you are Zacchaeus in the Temple, if you are Zacchaeus in the tree, if you are the ones standing there mocking Jesus for taking a meal with sinners I say to you, welcome to this table and through it may you find peace and joy.

Amen.

Eucharistic Feast

“Then the Jews began to argue sharply among themselves, “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?” Jesus said to them, “Very truly I tell you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day.” John 6:52-54

One can only imagine the argument that broke out when the people gathered heard Jesus say that he was giving them his flesh to eat. Let’s face it; this would be rather startling to hear today, let alone two thousand years ago. But here is Jesus telling those within earshot that unless they eat his flesh and drink his blood, they will not have eternal life. So let’s unpack this a little.

Last week I happened upon a sermon delivered on the Feast of Corpus Christi, June of 2019 by Canon Mark Birch at Westminster Cathedral. In that sermon, Canon Birch compared the use of the verb “to eat” as used in the passage from John I have quoted above. In the first instance, those arguing about eating are using the Greek verb phagow, which is a more delicate form of eating sort of nibbling as one would do on a small sandwich at a garden party. When Jesus speaks, he uses the Greek verb trowgow, a word that means to gnaw and eat like it was your last meal. The verb that Jesus uses implies that we are to eat of his flesh as if our very life depends upon it, and, as he says, it does.

But, I want to move away from the physical manifestation of what Jesus is saying here to focus on the spiritual. Obviously, Jesus is not giving us his actual flesh and is actual blood. Even in the elements of the Eucharist, considering the real presence, it is not actual flesh and blood but spiritual food.

Jesus, as John’s Gospel tells us, is the Word made flesh that dwelt among us. Jesus has left us with a new commandment to love God and love our neighbor (we also need to love our enemies and ourselves), and Jesus also left us a way to follow. When we feast on Jesus, when we trowgow Jesus, we are devouring the flesh of his word, we are taking that word into our very being, so it courses through our veins. We are feasting on his Word like it is the last meal we will ever eat. Jesus is the very bread of life, and if we feed on his, we shall have eternal life.

Denying Communion

This past week, the New York Times reported that former Vice President Joe Biden was refused communion at a Roman Catholic Church in South Carolina. It is important to note that the only mention Biden has made of this is to say that it was a personal matter. The priest, in a statement to the media, said he refused communion based on Biden’s support of abortion rights “something the church cannot condone by way of the sacrament.” I am not sure when it was decided that this priest or any human being was the judge of God’s grace, but he felt he was given that power.

In Roman Catholic Theology, the Eucharist is a sacrament. Sacraments provide grace to the faithful, so refusing to commune someone denies them of the sacramental grace. Roman Catholic Theology also teaches that Jesus Christ is present, in a very real way, in the elements of bread and wine, and so refusing to give communion to someone is to deny them the presence of Jesus. I am not sure that is what was intended.

On that Thursday night, in the Upper Room, Jesus gathered his closest friends around him for one last Passover meal with them. Scripture tells us that after supper, he shared bread and wine with them and said to them that these elements were his body and blood that would be shared for them and all so that their sins may be forgiven.  He then gave them the command to “do this in remembrance of me.” It is important to note that sitting around that table was the man that would three times deny Jesus and also the man that would betray him, which would ultimately lead to his death.  That’s right; Judas was present and, as far as we can tell, received communion from the hand of our Lord himself.

This denial of communion is certainly not the first instance of the faithful being denied communion; this practice has been going on since the day after that first Eucharist.  Who is and who is not in communion with the church is a powerful weapon that has been used by Popes, Priests, and Bishops in all times and places of history. This action that is meant to unify and bring grace and peace to people is continuously being used as a weapon to divide, and now it has been reduced to a prize one gets for being “the best in class.”

Although Pope Francis believes that abortion is a sin, he had this to say about withhold communion from people, I think this is from 2013, “The Eucharist … is not a prize for the perfect but a powerful medicine and nourishment for the weak.”

Another point I will raise is what has the action of this priest done in the eyes of the faithful? Sure, some will applaud him for taking a stand, but there are far more that will be hurt and divided by his actions. With the belief that communion is the real and actual presence of Jesus Christ when one comes to receive communion, they stand before the very presence of Jesus. What this priest has done is tell Biden and others that Jesus has told them no, go away, you are no worthy of my grace, something that Jesus NEVER did, remember, Judas was at that table.

When I decided to leave the Eastern Orthodox Church for the Reformed Church, it was partly around this idea of closed table communion that somehow, this life-giving sacrament was reserved only for those who followed a particular set of rules. My spiritual and theological understanding of the sacrament, real presence or not, is that it was a gift given by Jesus to everyone as a way to help them, through grace, to be better, to act better, to love better. By denying communion to people, we deny them God’s grace!

On a personal theological note, I do believe that Jesus is present in the elements of communion. I think that something happens when the community gathers around the table and that community asks the Holy Spirit to come. A transformation, a sanctification of those elements takes place and they become something different, not in the physical sense but in the spiritual sense.  And when we receive them into our bodies we become sanctified and grace-filled. How can we possibly deny that to anyone?

I am not sure where the arrogance comes from that makes one believe they are the judge of God’s grace, but I thank God that he sent his Son Jesus so that all who believe in him might have eternal life, not just those who follow specific rules.

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