How to Forgive

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Just like last week we need to back up a few verses to put this passage in the proper context.  Starting with verse 21 Peter asks Jesus how many times we are to forgive a person who has wronged us.  Peter then goes on to answer his question when he says, “Up to seven times?”  I love Peter, in fact, our daily Bible study email has been focusing on the Letters of Peter.  Peter is a great example of what God can do with someone for he took Peter and made him great.  But I digress.  Peter thought he was very generous when he suggested that we are to forgive up to seven times because the rabbinic teaching was to forgive only three times.

The Rabbinic teaching of the time was that is someone sinned against you, you were to forgive them no more than three times.  If a person commits and offense, you forgive them; if they commit an offense a second time, you forgive them; if they commit an offense a third time, you forgive them for the third time, if they commit and offense a fourth time, you do not forgive them.  This was the teaching that those listening to the exchange between Peter and Jesus would have been familiar with.

The Biblical proof of this teaching is taken from the opening chapters of the Prophet Amos, which contain a series of condemnations on the various nations for three transgressions and four. From this, we can deduce that God’s forgiveness extends to three offenses and that his punishment comes upon the sinner with the fourth.  Sort of a Divine three strikes and you’re out rule.  The teaching began along the lines that a person could not be more generous than God, so forgiveness was limited to three times.

Peter thought he was very generous, he takes the rabbinic three times, multiplies it by two for good measure adds one, and suggests, with eager satisfaction as Peter usually does when he answers his questions, that it will be enough if he forgives seven times.  I can picture Peter standing there, the look of satisfaction on his face with his well thought out the answer and then Jesus gives him his answer.  The Christian must forgive seventy times seven, in other words, there is no unreckonable limit to forgiveness!

I today’s Gospel Jesus tells the story of the servant forgiven great debt that then when out and dealt harshly, some would even say he dealt with him without mercy, a fellow servant who owed him a debt that was a fraction of he had owed.  We see that the mercilessness of the servant was utterly condemned.  From this parable come two central teachings.

The first is one that runs all through the New Testament, a person must forgive in order to be forgiven, it is just that simple. Those who do not forgive those who have wronged them has no hope that God will forgive them.  “Blessed are merciful, for they shall obtain mercy” (Matthew 5:7). No sooner had Jesus taught his disciples his prayer, that he went on to expand upon one of the points of that prayer: “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your Heavenly Father also will forgive you; but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Heavenly Father forgive you your trespasses” (Matthew 6:14-15). As James has it in his letter, “For judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy” (James 2:13). Divine and human forgiveness go hand in hand.

Second, why should it be that these go hand in hand, human forgiveness, and Divine forgiveness?  One of the great points of this parable is the contrast between the two debts.

The first servant owed his master 10,000 talents; a talent was the equivalent of roughly $240; therefore 10,000 talents was equal to about $2.4 million. This was, and is an incredible debt!  It was more than the total budget of the ordinary Roman Province of the day. This debt was greater than a king’s ransom, and it was forgiven.  The servant was not put on a payment plan, he was not given a reduced amount, it was completely forgiven.

The other servant was owed a much smaller amount; it was, according to the parable, 100 denarii; a denarius is worth about 4 cents, and so the total debt owed was about $5. It was approximately one five-hundred-thousandths of his debt.

Look at it this way, the 100 denarii could be carried in one pocket. The 10,000 talent debt would have to be transported by an army of about 8,600 soldiers, each carrying a sack of coins weighing about 60 lbs, and they would form, at a distance of a yard apart, line 5 miles long! The contrast between the two debts in this story is staggering. The point is that nothing another person can do to us can in any way compare with what we have done to God; and if God has forgiven us the debt we owe to him, we must forgive our fellow human the debts they owe to us. Nothing that we have to forgive can even faintly or remotely compare with what we have been forgiven.

We have been forgiven a debt that is beyond all paying – for the sin of humanity brought about the death of God’s own Son – and, if that is so, we must forgive others as God has forgiven us, or we can hope to find no mercy!

10 Things I Learned at the National Church Leadership Institute

This past week I had the great privilege to attend the National Church Leadership Institute held at Andover Newton Theological Seminary and sponsored by the Center for Progressive Renewal.  It was a wonderful three days but, as I tweeted after the conference, you cannot stay on the mountain forever you have to come down and get to work.  The conference really started me thinking and it also confirmed many of the thoughts I have already had and that is a good thing.  When we are able to start to solidify our thoughts, and start to create a plan of action, that is always a good thing.

A few random thoughts I have; the general sessions were great and the speakers were provoking just as they should be.  I am so tired of conferences where there is no challenge!  What is the point?  The entire idea of learning, no matter what the environment, is to challenge your ideas and move you outside of your comfort zone, otherwise growth will not happen.

So here is a list, more of a stream of consciousness, of what I learned.  This is not in any particular order.

  1. I’m looking for a grown up faith with a grown up God.
  2. There is still hope and faith in the Church and in the future. And people are still coming to Jesus.
  3. It’s okay to be a Progressive Christian (time for more of us to come out of the closet!)
  4. Spend more time with the people who want to be at Church and not with those who don’t.
  5. We must be deeply rooted but radically open.
  6. We need Prophetic Greif and Revolutionary Love (this is going to take more thought)
  7. As a pastor I cannot do it myself, if I try I will fail. I NEED GOD!
  8. “Where is God?” Is the wrong question.
  9. When we confess our sins in community, it puts us back into God’s great democracy.
  10. The ultimate local movement is, “God came to dwell among us.”

So thank you to those who brought this conference to Boston!

What is Progressive Christianity

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For a few days this week I am attending the National Church Leadership Institute sponsored by the Center for Progressive Renewal.  The first observation I will make is that church people still have faith and hope in and for the future!  It is so refreshing to attend a conference that is upbeat and hopeful.

So what is Progressive Christianity?

Progressive Christianity grew out of the idea that it was okay to question tradition; the idea that it is okay to accept human diversity, there is a strong emphasis on social justice and care for the poor and oppressed, and environmental stewardship.  Progressive Christians have a profound belief in the centrality of the instruction to “love one another” (John 15:17) within the teachings of Jesus Christ.  This focus leads to a faith that promotes values such as compassion, justice, mercy, and tolerance usually through social and political activism. This type of Christianity comes from the Hebrew Prophetic tradition of the care for the downtrodden in society and a preferential option for the poor.

Some of the characteristics of Progressive Christianity are:* (this list is not meant to be complete or exhaustive)

A spiritual vitality and expressiveness, including participatory, arts-infused worship as well as a variety of spiritual disciplines and practices such as prayer or meditation.

Intellectual integrity and creativity, including openness to questioning and an insistence upon intellectual rigor.

Understanding of spirituality as a real effective and psychological or neural state

Critical interpretation of the scripture as a record of human historical & spiritual experiences and theological reflection after that instead of a composition of literal or scientific facts. Acceptance of modern historical Biblical criticism.

Acceptance (although not necessarily validation) of people who have differing understandings of the concept of “God”, such as pantheism, deism, non-theism, as a social construct, or as a community.

Understanding of Church communion as a symbol or reflection of the body of Christ

An affirmation of Christian belief with a simultaneous sincere respect for values present in other religions and belief systems

An affirmation of both human spiritual unity and social diversity

An affirmation of the universe, and more immediately the Earth, as the natural and primary context of all human spirituality.

An unyielding commitment to the Option for the poor and a steadfast solidarity with the poor as the subjects of their emancipation, rather than being the objects of charity.

Compassion for all living beings.

What I find most compelling in this system of theological and Church thought is that acceptance, but not necessarily approval, is the fundamental concept.  We need to be willing to accept that the way we are “doing church” may no longer be working.  This does not mean we have to change theology or even change the liturgical style, but we need to change the conversation.  Pope Francis has not changed one dot or title of Roman Catholic theology but he has shifted the conversation to one of more compassion than one of this is law and if you don’t like it you are going to hell.

I have always heard that we are to “love the sinner and hate the sin,” well, we have tried the hate thing long enough it is time to put the love thing into action.

*Key concepts from Wikipedia

The Essential Faith

The Gospel of Matthew 17:14-23

At that time, a man came up to Him and kneeling before Him said, “Lord, have mercy on my son, for he is an epileptic and he suffers terribly; for often he falls into the fire, and often into the water. And I brought him to Your disciples, and they could not heal him.” And Jesus answered, “O faithless and perverse generation, how long am I to be with you? How long am I to bear with you? Bring him here to me.” And Jesus rebuked him, and the demon came out of him, and the boy was cured instantly. Then the disciples came to Jesus privately and said, “Why could we not cast it out?” He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly I say to you, if you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move hence to yonder place,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you. But this kind never comes out except by prayer and fasting.” As they were gathering in Galilee, Jesus said to them, “The Son of man is to be delivered into the hands of men, and they will kill Him, and He will be raised on the third day.”

In the previous pericope, Jesus was up on the mountain praying, and now we see him descend back into the world of reality and he comes face to face with an earthly problem and a practical demand. A man had brought his epileptic son to his disciples while Jesus was on the mountain praying, and they were unable to heal him.  So serious was his condition that he had become a danger to himself and others.  If you listen closely to the story, you can almost hear the sigh of relief when Jesus appears on the scene.  He took control of the situation that had become entirely out of hand.  With one strong word, he drove the demon out of the boy, and he was cured.

This story has many significant things in it that it bears some looking at further.

We cannot help but be moved by the faith of the father.  Although the disciples’ of Jesus had been given the power to cast out demons such as these, they were unable to do so.  They had publically failed in their mission, and things were turning bad. But, in spite of the lack of healing from the disciples, the father never doubted the power of Jesus. It is as if he said, “Only let me get at Jesus, and my problems will be solved, and my need will be met.”

There is something striking about this, and there is something that is very universal and modern. There are many who feel that the church has failed and is powerless to deal with the ills of the human situation; and yet in the back of their minds there is the feeling: “If we could only get beyond the human followers of Jesus, if we could only get past the façade of ecclesiasticism and the failure of the Church, if we could only get at Jesus himself, we would receive the things we need.”

I have said before that the numbers of people who do not align themselves with a church, any church, are staggering.  The numbers of believers are still high, perhaps higher than it has even been, but people have lost faith in the institution of the church.  This place that is supposed to be about comfort and healing is perceived to be about judgment and condemnation.  There are more people that know what we are against than what we are for!  We as a church have abused power and abused the sacred trust that has been given to us by God. Some well-meaning church people are spending so much time fighting for the so-called “soul of America” that I fear we have lost the soul of the church and maybe even turned an entire generation of people away. We are perceived as hypocritical, judgmental, inauthentic people who only want to point at people and point out their sins all the while we go about our day so mired in sin ourselves that we cannot see the damage we are doing. It is both our condemnation and our challenge that, even yet, though people have lost faith in the church, they have never lost faith in Jesus Christ.  We have to reverse this collision course that we are on; we have to turn away from this nonsense and turn back towards people, created in the image and likeness of God. I always like to remind myself that the only people Jesus ever had harsh words for were the church, leaders.  Kind of keeps things in perspective for me.  He came down harder on the leaders of the church than he did the prostitute and the tax collector.

We also see in this passage the constant demands made upon Jesus. He comes straight down off the mountain of glory, and he comes face to face with human suffering.  He comes straight from hearing God’s voice hear the pleading of a father for his sick child. The most Christ-like person in the world is the one who never finds his fellow human a nuisance. It is so easy to feel close to God in the moment of prayer and meditation; it is easy to feel close to God when the world is shut out. But that is not religion – that is escapism. Real religion, true religion, is to rise from our knees before God to meet people and the problems of the human situation. Real religion, true religion, is to draw strength from God to give it to others. Real religion, true religion involves both meetings God in the secret places and people in the marketplace. Real religion, true religion means taking our own needs to God, not that we may have peace and quiet and undisturbed comfort, but that we may be enabled graciously, efficiently and powerfully to  meet the needs of others. It is not enough for us to pray for people and then go about our day never giving them another thought. Jesus went away for a time of prayer and refreshment, and he came back with the power of God and used that power to people, all people.  He did not judge them, he did not require them to do this or that, he did not even require them to change their lifestyle, he accepted them all and helped them, just as he helped this child in the story today.  He knew nothing about this man or his son, all he knew was that he had faith, and that was enough for Jesus.

At the center of all of this is the idea that we need faith. It was this man’s faith that pushed him to seek out Jesus even after his disciples had let him down. It is faith that allows the person, abused or shunned by the church and church people, to continue to believe in Jesus and the power of his grace. When Jesus spoke about removing mountains, he was using a phrase that would have been familiar to the ears of those listing to him. Someone who was considered a great teacher was called and uprooter or a pulverizer, of mountains. To tear up, to pulverize, to uproot mountains is a phrase the was used for removing problems and difficulties. Jesus never meant that this phrase was to be taken literally, I believe there are a lot of phrases Jesus never meant to be taken literally, I don’t know about you but I have never found a need to remove a mountain. I believe what he meant was, “If you have faith enough, even a small amount of faith like this mustard seed, all difficulties can be solved, and even the hardest task can be accomplished.” Faith in God is what enables believers to remove the hills of difficulty that blocks our path, all we need is a little of this faith, and the help and support of others in the community, and we can solve any problem.

The 4 Stages of the Christian Life

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The hunger of the human situation does not end in Jesus Christ it only grows stronger. The restless soul is at rest, and the hungry heart gets satisfied.

So what steps can one take to fins this rest?

  1. We seek Jesus. We come to the realization that we cannot make this journey alone, that our lives are out of balance, and we need to find the equilibrium and we find this in Jesus. We meet Jesus in the pages of the New Testament; we read his words and his story, and they come to be part of our lives. We find Jesus in the teachings of the Church where we, hopefully, see others living this life and learn from their example. And we see Jesus in each other.  Remember, we may be the only Bible people ever read.
  2. Having sought him and found him, we then come to him. Jesus is not some distant being but dwells with us not as a judge but as fried and desires a personal, intimate life with us. We find Jesus as an accessible person and as a friend that will not let us down and will never leave us no matter what we do.
  3. We believe in him. But our belief requires a surrendering of part of ourselves and our will. We no longer live for ourselves alone, but we live for God and his Son Jesus Christ.  We have to bend our will to his will and our lives to his life, the life that he wants us to live.  We submit to his authority as one who knows what is best for us but again, not as a judge but as a friend and a guide.
  4. The entire process, whether we call it sanctification, theosis, or another name gives us new life and brings us to a closer and more meaningful relationship with God and the salvation that is available to all. This salvation is free and universal but requires that we submit to his will, and this remains the most stubborn part of the spiritual life.

Following the steps is not easy and can take a lifetime but there is no better time to start than right now at this moment.

Preaching at Old Sturbridge Village

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I am a living historian and as such I get to do some cool things.  A few months ago I got to witness the wedding vows of two people in full colonial minister’s garb and recently I was asked to preach at the Center Meeting House at Old Sturbridge Village.

If you are unfamiliar with Old Sturbridge Village (OSV), it is a collection of buildings set in a rural New England about 1830/1840-time frame.  Costumed historical interpreters lead visitors through daily life in the village.  The centerpiece is the Meeting House at the head of the Town Common.  The Meeting House was originally the Baptist Church in the Town of Sturbridge until that congregation merged to form what is now the Sturbridge Federated Church.

I was asked to preach as part of the Redcoats and Rebels event that takes place each year.  Although not the same period, OSV opens its doors to living historians of the Crown Forces and the Americans stage this event as a living history/battle reenactment.  I would guess there were about 1,000 reenactors present for the entire weekend.  There were various displays of camp life as well as life in general in the late 1700’s.

On Sunday, a different minister is chosen to bring the message to the reenactors and those who might be visiting the village.  The Meetinghouse was filled, which made it sweltering.  I used my line, “it is much better to be hot here than hereafter” well it’s not my line, but I have made it my own.

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Center Meetinghouse Pulpit

Standing in that historic pulpit gave me pause and my mind drifted to all those who have preached from that spot in the past.  What messages did they bring?  How many couples have been joined in that building?  All interesting questions to ponder.  Then there was the height.  The pulpit stands a good 20 feet off the ground, so one is looking over the tops of the heads of those listening.  Of course, this was done primarily for sound purposes but also, I imagine, for a little intimidation.

Keeping with the theme of the event I admonished those present for their behavior the night before in the tavern as well as the display the women had staged the day before. They did a kind of cool presentation about women’s dress of the period and in the real Puritan style I marched in the meeting house calling “shame.”  The assembled women assured me that their virtue was intact and that they were well guarded.

After the admonishment, I moved into the sermon based on Jesus words from John 6 “I am the bread of life.”  I will post the sermon in another post.

I am grateful to the folks at St. Michael for giving me the day off, so I could bring God’s word to the battlefield and also the organizers of the event for asking me to preach.  I will not soon forget the experience.

The Fear of the Lord

 

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I read a lot of blogs by a lot of different people.  I read history blogs, news blogs, religious blogs, and some fun stuff.  I recently came across this daily devotional blog that had a post about the fear of God.  The writer of the blog post, the Rev Richard Floyd said that fearing God is not very popular these days and I would have to agree that is true.  No one wants to think that God is something or someone that should be feared.  With this in mind the author offers this bit of advice, “If fear seems too strong a word, sidle up to it slowly by thinking about ‘awe’ and ‘reverence.’” I like these words but I would like to go a little bit further.

The writer of the Proverbs has it: “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge” (Proverbs 1:7). Perhaps it should read that it is not the fear of the Lord that is the beginning of knowledge but that the fear of the Lord is the principal part, the very foundation of knowledge. Fear here does not mean terror; it means awe and reverence. It is the simple fact of life that we will never reverence others until we reverence God. It is only when God is given his proper place in the center that all other things take their proper place.

So let us shift our thinking away from “fear” and more towards “reverence” but not just reverence for God but reverence for all of God’s people and all of God’s creation.

Miracles Are All Around Us

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The Gospel of Matthew 14:14-22

At that time, Jesus saw a great throng; and he had compassion on them, and healed their sick. When it was evening, the disciples came to him and said, “This is a lonely place, and the day is now over; send the crowds away to go into the villages and buy food for themselves.” Jesus said, “They need not go away; you give them something to eat.” They said to him, “We have only five loaves here and two fish.” And he said, “Bring them here to me.” Then he ordered the crowds to sit down on the grass; and taking the five loaves and the two fish he looked up to heaven, and blessed, and broke and gave the loaves to the crowds. And they all ate and were satisfied. And they took up twelve baskets full of the broken pieces left over. And those who ate were about five thousand men, besides women and children. Then he made the disciples get into the boat and go before him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowds.

This Gospel passage is a beautiful story, not that all biblical stories are not fantastic, but his one is especially enjoyable.  In this passage, we read the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 with just a few loaves of bread and some fish.  I have used this passage before to talk about feeding the hungry and the Icon for this particular passage is used for our Church Community Meal, but there is another meaning as well that of miracles.

Just sticking with the food theme for a minute I offer this illustration. About five years ago a few people here at the Church decided we needed to help the local community by providing a meal for those in need, in need not just physically but emotionally and spiritually.  We planned it all out, picked the date, cooked the food and opened the door.  A few people came, 35 I believed for that first meal, it and was great.  We decided that we would cook a full on Thanksgiving meal that year and so the week before Thanksgiving we cooked turkeys and all the fixins.  We opened the doors, and the people came and came, and came.  So many folks came that we had to ask people to leave so we could seat more!  We were picking the bones of the turkeys to make sure we had enough food, but no one went without that night, and it has been the same ever since.

I read a sermon recently by Rev. Nadia Bolz-Weber, if you have not read her stuff I suggest you do she is one of the brightest voices in Christianity today, anyway, in the sermon she mentions that this story appears six times in the Gospels.  She reminds us that there are only four Gospels so this story appears twice in some of them, so it is important.  Pastor Nadia asks the question about the miracle itself, was it that Jesus took the bread and the fish and multiplied it or was it that the people were so moved that they, reached into the own stores of food, and shared with their neighbors?  I like to think a little of both but will focus on the second part, the sharing part.

Sharing, as Pastor Nadia points out, is not new to many folks, after all we learned to share in kindergarten or at least we should have.  The people had come from far and wide to hear Jesus and I find it impossible to believe they did not plan ahead and bring some food, heck I don’t drive more than an hour away without a granola bar or something with me just in case.  These folks were used to traveling, and so I am sure there was food hanging around.  Sure maybe some did not come prepared, but I think most did.

Jesus taught them, Scripture tells us that the number was around 5,000 men and that number did not include the women and children so we can be safe to say that this figure was probably two or three times the reported number.  Apparently journalistic accuracy was lacking in the first century as well. (that was a joke my friends) The Apostles come to Jesus asking what they are supposed to do; Jesus looks at them in what I can only imagine is a look of exasperation, and tells them to feed them.  They look back with a look of total amazement, I can just see Judas clutching the money bag thinking that this is going to bankrupt them, and they say with what?  All we have is this bread and some fish; Jesus tells them to bring them to him, he blesses them and tells them to distribute them. They do, and the rest is history.

What we see here is the miracle of sharing full on.  Jesus, once again, gives us the example to live by, we take the extra of what we have and share it with others.  If they kept those loaves of bread and fish, they would spoil in the Palestinian heat.  Jesus blessed them and gave them away and encourage the others to do the same.  So they dug into their picnic baskets and found extra and gave it to the guy next to them who may be shared something with them, this is what we are supposed to do, share with those in need from the gifts that we have been given.

Several years ago I was on a train in Romania.  If you ever want an experience go on a cross-country train trip in Romania, it is amazing.  The train is made up of compartments of six people, you may or may not know all of them, but you travel together.  As the journey continued it turned to meal time.  Each person took some food from their bag and all six of us shared what we had, a loaf of bread, some cheese, a bottle of wine, some salami, whatever we had we shared, and each of us ate and were filled.

The miracle is not the multiplication of the loaves the miracle is getting people to think of another and help them when they need it and ask for nothing in return.  The miracle is the person next to you sharing what they have with you and you sharing with them not storing things up while others are in need.  Scripture tells us that if we have two cloaks we should give one to someone who has none, how many of us have more than one jacket while our neighbor goes without?

The miracle is a change in our hearts that makes us less selfish and more willing to help and love our neighbor that is the miracle of the story, that everyone helped everyone else and no one was turned away hungry.

What I did on my summer vacation

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When I was in elementary school, we always had this first day of school ritual of telling the class what we did on our summer vacation.  One by one my classmates would rise and tell of their adventures to Disney World, the beach, or some other fascinating place.  We would listen attentively and then move on to the next item on the agenda for the day.  But listening to how others spent their vacation was, well, cool.

I have just returned from a vacation to Nova Scotia, if you have never does yourself a favor and go its beauty is unsurpassed.  I have not traveled much outside of the US, and then it was to Romanian primarily, but there is something about Nova Scotia, and Cape Breton especially, that just draws me in.  As the old song goes, home of my heart Cape Breton.

So what did I do on this vacation?  Well, I did way too much although I find being busy and seeing different things to be very relaxing.  I have never been one who can “power down” for any length of time.  I do not like to be idle, and I am not one for sitting on the beach.  The one regret I have of vacation is spending enough time on the balcony of our Inn in Iona to enjoy the view.  It was awesome and awe-inspiring!  I did get up early to catch the sunrise over the lake and did get to see the sunset a few times, and it was worth it.  But I did not spend time just taking it all in.

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The View from the Iona Heights Inn

In a recent essay, Pastor Carey Niweuwhof, who coincidently is from Canada but not Nova Scotia, wrote about the advice he received from people about what to do on vacation. He came up with three rules, if you will, about vacation.  I will post a link to the article at the end of this one, and I encourage you to read it, but I will summarize the rules and put my spin on them.

  1. Do the things that restore you.

What restores me will be different than what restores you.  You might be the person who likes to sit on the beach, I am the type that wants to check out what is going on in the area and visiting the historic site.  Since I am a church geek, I also like to visit churches, all kinds of churches and see what is up there.  I like to check out their bulletins and see what the community is doing, but I also like the architecture of churches.

I enjoy museums and galleries, and I like to find out of way places and monuments.  One can learn a lot about a community from their monuments and what they prize about their history.  Cape Breton was settled by Scots who left Scotland during the Highland Clearances.  Some of those first settlers were also my relatives, so I had to visit a few cemeteries, on what I was calling the “dead relatives tour.”  Knowing my history is important to me, and I get energy from finding a grave or a place where they lived.

  1. Do the things that energize you.

Part of the joy of vacation is doing something different and the time to recharge your batteries.  Those of us who working professions of social service or helping need this time to recharge, not that others don’t, but when your life is spent giving to and living for others this is imperative.  I took time, intentional time, to re-engage with Scripture and have kept it up since I have been back.  I also took time, again deliberate time, to re-engage in a deeper pray life.  It’s easy on vacation to do these things but are we carrying them forward when we return?

Just like the previous point, what energizes me is going to be different then what energizes you.  I see these two as working hand in hand with each other, and I get energy from what restores me as the batteries recharge my energy level is restored.  However, I think I need a vacation from my vacation when I return!  I planned way too much, but it was still energizing and restorative.

  1. Avoid what drains you.

Life drains me!  How can we avoid that?  Those of us in the social service or helping professions, well I find this anyway, just doing what we do drain us.  That is not to say that people who are not engaged in these types of professions do not also get exhausted, but I find that I get drained often.  Just like a rechargeable battery, we need to be careful how many times we hook ourselves up to the charger, one of this day it might not work.

I also find that I am not able to totally disengage from my ministry life.  I continued to post to the blog, write the daily Bible study email, and correspond on Facebook and Twitter.  I just did a little less, and I posted vacation type stuff rather than the usual things.  So y’all got a vacation from me while I was on vacation!

I did restrict my work to early morning hours.  I have a practice of rising early, sometimes between 5 and 5:30 as this is when I am at my most creative.  I know some folks who do better in the late hours of the day, not me, I am better in the morning.  So I would rise early, make some coffee, sit on the balcony and read Scripture while the sun was coming up, and then go and write for an hour or so.  For some this might be draining but for me this restores me and energizes me.

At the end of the essay, Carey talks about self-care.  As a fire chaplain, we talk a lot about self-care since we are usually the worst at taking care of ourselves.  However, if we do not take care of ourselves, then we will not be available to take care of others.

I used to think that vacation was selfish and that the time could better be spent on a mission trip or some other such activity then I hit the wall.  Vacations are important and if you are a member of the clergy and do not take a vacation, or a day off during the week for that matter, then you need to start before it is too late.  If you burn out, you will be of no use to anyone.  Hey, even Jesus withdrew from time to time for a little R & R, he set the example, we need to follow it.

Some New (And Better) Rules For Your Next Vacation

You are a Royal Priesthood

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In the daily Bible study work that I am presently engaged in, (sign up here) the focus is on the First Letter of St. Peter.  At the present time we are working our way through the second chapter and the focus is on the calling of all Christians to the priesthood.  For some this is a radical concept and I can recall several conversations I have had with people who say they are not priests, but St. Peter would disagree.

“…you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.” 1 Peter 2:5

“But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” 1 Peter 2:9

There are two great characteristics of this priesthood that all Christians are called too.

The priests are the ones who have access to God and it is their task to bring others to him. In the ancient world this task was reserved for the professional priest, and in particular the High Priest who was the only one that could enter the Holy of Holies. Through Jesus Christ access to God becomes the privilege of every Christian. The priest is the one who builds bridges so others can come to God; and the Christian has the duty and the privilege of bringing others to that Savior whom they have found and loves.

The priest is the one who brings offerings to God. The Christian also must continuously bring their offerings to God. Under the old way the offerings brought to God were animal sacrifices; but the sacrifices of the Christian are spiritual sacrifices. The Christian makes their work and offering to God. Everything they do is for God; and so even the smallest task is done with glory. The Christian makes their worship and offering to God; and so the worship of God’s house becomes a joy. The Christian makes themselves an offering to God (Romans 12:1). What is desired most by God is the love of our hearts and the service of our lives. This is the perfect sacrifice which every Christian must make.

All Christians have the responsibility to serve others and to being others to God.  We also have the responsibility and the duty to make sacrifices to God no matter what our position in life is.  We are a Royal Priesthood!

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