An Introduction to Great Lent

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Alexander Schmemann

When a man leaves on a journey, he must know where he is going. Thus with Lent. Above all, Lent is a spiritual journey and its destination is Easter, “the Feast of Feasts.” It is the preparation for the “fulfillment of Pascha, the true Revelation.” We must begin, therefore, by trying to understand this connection between Lent and Easter, for it reveals something very essential, very crucial about our Christian faith and life.

Is it necessary to explain that Easter is much more than one of the feasts, more than a yearly commemoration of a past event? Anyone who has, be it only once, taken part in that night which is “brighter than the day,” who has tasted of that unique joy, knows it. On Easter we celebrate Christ’s Resurrection as something that happened and still happens to us. For each one of us received the gift of that new life and the power to accept it and live by it. It is a gift which radically alters our attitude toward everything in this world, including death. It makes it possible for us to joyfully affirm: “Death is no more!” Oh, death is still there, to be sure, and we still face it and someday it will come and take us. But it is our whole faith that by His own death Christ changed the very nature of death, made it a passage — a “passover,” a “Pascha” — into the Kingdom of God, transforming the tragedy of tragedies into the ultimate victory.

Such is that faith of the Church, affirmed and made evident by her countless Saints. Is it not our daily experience, however, that this faith is very seldom ours, that all the time we lose and betray the “new life” which we received as a gift, and that in fact we live as if Christ did not rise from the dead, as if that unique event had no meaning whatsoever for us? We simply forget all this — so busy are we, so immersed in our daily preoccupations — and because we forget, we fail. And through this forgetfulness, failure, and sin, our life becomes “old” again — petty, dark, and ultimately meaningless — a meaningless journey toward a meaningless end. We may from time to time acknowledge and confess our various “sins,” yet we cease to refer our life to that new life which Christ revealed and gave to us. Indeed, we live as if He never came. This is the only real sin, the sin of all sins, the bottomless sadness and tragedy of our nominal Christianity.

If we realize this, then we may understand what Easter is and why it needs and presupposes Lent. For we may then understand that the liturgical traditions of the Church, all its cycles and services, exist, first of all, in order to help us recover the vision and the taste of that new life which we so easily lose and betray, so that we may repent and return to it. And yet the “old” life, that of sin and pettiness, is not easily overcome and changed. The Gospel expects and requires from man an effort of which, in his present state, he is virtually incapable. This is where Great Lent comes in. This is the help extended to us by the Church, the school of repentance which alone will make it possible to receive Easter not as mere permission to eat, to drink, and to relax, but indeed as the end of the “old” in us, as our entrance into the “new.” For each year Lent and Easter are, once again, the rediscovery and the recovery by us of what we were made through our own baptismal death and resurrection.

A journey, a pilgrimage! Yet, as we begin it, as we make the first step into the “bright sadness” of Lent, we see — far, far away — the destination. It is the joy of Easter, it is the entrance into the glory of the Kingdom. And it is this vision, the foretaste of Easter, that makes Lent’s sadness bright and our lenten effort a “spiritual spring.” The night may be dark and long, but all along the way a mysterious and radiant dawn seems to shine on the horizon. “Do not deprive us of our expectation, O Lover of man!” Glory be to God!

Why I Do Not Give Up Social Media for Lent

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In the Orthodox Church, the first day of Great Lent falls on a Monday and is called Clean Monday.  This is the day that the fast begins in earnest, and the journey towards Pascha has begun.  On Sunday night, we serve the Forgiveness Vespers and at the conclusion of the service we ask each other for forgiveness as we start Great Lent.

Over the past week, many people have been signing off of social media for the duration of Great Lent and do not necessarily agree with this especially for clergy.  The one question I ask is, do you give up other forms of communication?  Do you give up talking to people and answering the phone? Do you give up answering questions from seekers?  These are just some of things that take place in the social medial realm.

Whether we want to admit it, social media is here to stay and is the avenue that many young people use to communicate and find answers to their questions.  A millennial is more likely to come to Facebook looking for an answer they would be walking into a church.  Say what you will but that is the reality and if we wish to meet them where they are then we need to be where they are.

Cutting off communication, during the holiest time of the church year, to me seems counterproductive.  It’s like closing the doors of the Church!  In the past, I have had many fruitful conversations with seekers, who have come to social media specifically during the time of Lent.  If no one is there who will answer their questions?  There will always be someone willing to answer a question but are we sure of the truthfulness of the answer?

If used appropriately social media is a powerful tool for evangelism and the season of Lent is a time when many people’s minds turn to spiritual things and start to ask questions and seek answers.  Stay connected during this time is extremely important especially for clergy.  There is a lot of good information out there, but there is also a lot of junk and helping people navigate the minefield is an important task.

Lent is a time for us to focus more intently on the spiritual life and how we are living that life in the world today.  As Christians, we are a witness to the world by the way we live our lives.  I wrote previously about my reaction to seeing people on the streets of Boston wish ashes on their heads, the witness is needed in all walks of life and especially in social media.  We have the potential of reaching more people with the click of a mouse then we could ever hope or imagine.

Jesus told His Apostles to go into the entire world, and that includes social media.  I would urge you to reconsider, especially if you are clergy, your desire to stop communicating during Lent.  This is not the time to be silent but the time for us to be shouting from the rooftops!

How Will We Be Judged?

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As you can imagine, I get involved in many conversations relating to religion, life, and death.  More often than not the conversation turns to how we will be judged in the end.  The final Sunday of preparation before the start of Great Lent focuses on this topic of the last judgment.  Not to scare us or anything of the kind but to make us think about how we are living our lives.

For the last few weeks in the Orthodox Church, we have been preparing for the season of Great Lent with themes such as humility, repentance, and forgiveness.  All of these themes should be remembered all during the year but most especially during the time of Great Lent.

The story comes to us from the Gospel of St. Matthew the twenty-fifth chapter and is the most direct that Jesus has ever talked to his followers.  He tells them that the time is near, and when the “Son of Man” returns He will sit on a throne and will separate all of humanity as a shepherd would separate the sheep and the goats.  The sheep at the right hand and the goats at the left hand. To those on his right He will say to them, “Come, O blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.”

Jesus then goes on to give us the criteria for which we will be judged by the following words, “I was hungry, and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.”

The righteous ones, those on the left, will respond and ask when did we see you like this?  They are thinking that He is speaking in the present tense and about Himself.  His response is clear, “Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.” We will not be judged by how we treat Jesus but how we treat each other.  In the end, the essence of the spiritual life is Love your neighbor!

We show love to our neighbor not only in the big things but the small things.  How many times have we walked past someone and not uttered a word or even given a smile?  Most of the time we walk around with our heads turned toward the ground, so lost in our own world, that we walk past hundreds of people who long for a smile or a kind word for another human being, and it costs us nothing.

I am often asked why we focus so much on this theme of the end of our lives.  Well, we spend so little time on our souls, and that needs to be a priority.  We spend hundreds of thousands of dollars a year on diets and gym memberships to get our outward body in shape and to keep it that way.  We run, walk, diet, paint our nails, get our hair done, spend hours concerned about what we are going to wear, but when it comes to the care of our souls we are quick to dismiss it and not necessary.

The care of the souls is most important aspect of our lives!  In the end it will not matter if we are wearing the latest fashion or have our hair just right, what will matter is how we treated each other.  There is so much hate in this world, this world of absolute darkness, which it has become acceptable.  Each one of us can enact change in this world, the world right around us, but following the words of Scripture.  We need to forgive, we need to be humble in our dealings with others, and we need to love everyone, even if they are trying to kill us.  This is not easy but is essential to our spiritual lives and the health of our bodies.

We are approaching the holiest season of the Church year culminating with the great celebration of Pascha (Easter).  This is a time of preparation, a time of slowing down and reflecting on our lives where we have been and where we are going.  Make the most of these approaching days to work on your spiritual life.  If you need some guidance, reach out, and I will try and guide you.  Find a Church community where you feel at home and welcome, we cannot do this alone.

Why I Miss Ash Wednesday

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I had to travel to Boston on Ash Wednesday to conduct some business, and while I was walking around the snowbound city I noticed all of the people with ashes on their foreheads.  I grew up Roman Catholic and used to make the annual journey at the start of Lent to receive the ashes.  “Remember thou art dust and to dust thou will return” or similar words.  The ashes are a reminder of our mortality, and this reminder of our death is a good way to start Lent.

But I believe the ashes serve another purpose and one that is missing from Orthodoxy, and that is an outward sign of our faith.  We live in a world that is almost void of religious symbols and in my belief this is what the world needs most at this moment in time so for one day, people wear their faith on their foreheads.

Now with that said, I am reminded of the Gospel reading for this day:

Jesus said, “Beware of practicing your piety before others in order to be seen by them; for then you have no reward from your Father in heaven. “So whenever you give alms, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and the streets so that they may be praised by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. But when you give alms, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your alms may be done in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you. “And whenever you pray, do not be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, so that they may be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. But whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you. “And whenever you fast, do not look dismal, like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces so as to show others that they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that your fasting may be seen not by others but by your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you. “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:1-6,16-21

Jesus reminds us not to boast about our faith and our works but just to do them without recognition, and I believe this is important for us to remember at all points of our spiritual life.  Ash Wednesday is the day when we share our faith in an outward way.  As I was walking along the streets of Boston, and seeing those with ashes on their foreheads, it was a constant reminder of my faith and the start of Lent for me.

I have often said that the best tool we have for evangelism is our lives and how we act.  If we are living our Christian faith, then people will notice that.  The downside of that is that if we proclaim our Christianity, but then do not live up to what that means, that will also shine like the light in the darkness.  Wearing those ashes on our foreheads is fine, but does our life live up to what that means?

So as I was walking around Boston yesterday I was becoming nostalgic for ashes on my forehead and thinking back of my childhood and early adult years and was happy.  I miss Ash Wednesday; I miss having the outward reminder of my mortality.  I know it is silly but for me it was a happy reminder.

Whether you received ashes yesterday or not, I hope you take the time during this Holy Season to make your life different and get your spiritual life back on track.

Great Lent is Upon Us

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The weeks prior to the start of Great Lent are all about preparing us for what is to come.  I always like to say that in the Orthodox Church we prepare to prepare, and then we prepare, and then we celebrate and this is what we are witnessing in these preparation weeks. Each week has a theme such as humility, repentance, forgiveness and last Sunday’s theme, Judgment.  The Gospel pericope comes from the twenty-fifth chapter of St. Mark.  Jesus is telling those listening of what will happen on the last day as people are separated out from sheep and goats and the criteria for the separation.

‘Come, O blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’

In the story, there is a question about when we saw you this way and did not help and Jesus’ response is that we should do this to everyone.  In the end, he says this as a judgment:

‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels; for I was hungry, and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’

During the season of Great Lent, we tend to focus on the superficial.  I am going to give up this, or I am going to give up that.  We give up nothing of consequence and as soon as the season is complete return to that behavior.  Why not give up being critical of others, or why not adopt a prayer routine or a Scripture reading habit.

In the Orthodox Church, we focus on the abstinence from certain food items, and it consumes us to the point that we miss the point entirely.  Why not fast with our eyes, with our ears, and with our tongues?

One of my favorite saints of the Church is Mother Maria of Paris.  I have written about her life before, so I will not go into that here.  There is one quote from her that has stuck with me, and I believe is the essence of the spiritual life of a Christian and I will end with the quote.

“At the last judgment I shall not be asked if I was successful in my ascetic exercises or how many prostrations I made in the course of my prayers. I shall be asked one thing – did I feed the hungry, clothe the naked, visit the sick and the prisoners – that is all I shall be asked.”

Morning Prayer

 

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Lord grant me to greet the coming day in peace.
Help me in all things to rely upon Your holy will.
In every hour of the day reveal your will to me.

Bless my dealings with all who surround me.
Teach me to treat all that comes to me throughout the day with peace of soul and a firm belief that Your will governs all.

Guide my words and deeds, thoughts and feelings.
Teach me to act firmly and wisely,
without embittering or embarrassing others.
Give me the strength to bear the fatigue of the coming day with all that it shall bring.
Direct my will, teach me to pray, pray yourself in me.

Amen

– St Philaret, Metropolitan of Moscow – Morning Prayer

Our Prodigal Lives

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The Sunday’s prior to the start of Great Lent each carry a theme in preparation for the start of this holiest of seasons on the Church calendar.  In the Orthodox Church, the past Sunday, we read the story from the Gospel of St. Luke about the Prodigal Son and his return home to his father’s house.  This story is a reminder of not only the love of this man for his son, but the love of God for all of His children when they go astray.

It has become quite common for me to hear of people speak of sin as if it is nothing unless someone else is harmed by whatever it was that is committed.  That is certainly not the tradition of the Orthodox Church as all sin carries with it a separation from God as well as a separation from the community.  The son’s greed and pride separated him from his family and the community when he took his father’s hard earned money and went off to do his own thing.

The striking part of this story for me is the arrogance of the son to believe that he has anything coming to him from his father.  His father has given him life, and by all accounts in the story, very good life.  Where do we get the idea that our parents owe us anything?  When his father does give him a share, his pride tells him that he knows best and sets off, by the end of the story we see how well that has worked out for him.

This story is less about the three people, the father, the son, and his brother than it is about us.  We have squandered our inheritance, the Heavenly Kingdom, by our sinful nature as the son had squandered his inheritance from his father.  This entire passage is about reconciliation and forgiveness.

I have written before that in my opinion; forgiveness is the cornerstone of the spiritual life.  We need forgiveness as well as the need for us to grant forgiveness.  What we see in the relationship between the father and his son is just this, forgiveness for what the son had done. Since the son was truly repentant, the father welcomed him home and into his arms once again.  That is the relationship we have with our Heavenly Father.

Sometimes we lose our way, sometimes it is intentional and sometimes not so intentional but there is always a way back.  The way back needs to begin with a realization that we are lost and the desire to turn away from our sinful lives and towards a life of reconciliation.  Reconciliation with God does not mean that we will be perfect or never sin again, far from it, but it will put us on the path to a better spiritual life.

As I wrote about last time, humility is necessary for the recognition that we have done wrong.  The Prodigal Son came to this realization after the harshness of what he had done finally hit him.  He was eating food that was being given to the pigs; this is how far this life had fallen.  He was at his rock bottom and was not sure of how to climb.  It does not matter how or when we come to this realization just that we do.  The road back can be a painful one, but it is a journey that we have to take.

The other person in the story is the other brother who stays with his father while his brother goes off to do what he is going to do.  When his brother returns, he gets mad and lashes out at the father saying that he has been here all along and that he has not dishonored the family.  He tries to make the case for why his father should throw his brother out.  The father simply turns to him and says that he is happy that he has remained with him. He tells him that his brother who was lost has been found has come home, and this should be a time of rejoicing.

In the end, the goal of our spiritual life is reconciliation with God and our fellow man and a desire to stay on the right path.  Staying on the right path is not an easy journey, and it cannot be done alone, we need to community as much as we need God.  The holy season of Lent is upon us.  Make this the year to get back on track, I can promise you that you will not regret it.

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Brian Williams and the Loss of Integrity

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I am not usually one to jump on the bandwagon, and I have purposely waited a week for some of the dust up to die down regarding the dare I say lies, which NBC Newsman Brian Williams spoke.  I use the word lies because that is what they were.  I do not know Mr. Williams, so I have no idea if it was intentional, but this clearly speaks to his integrity.

Integrity is defined as “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.”  It is the beginning and ending of one’s moral life and when everything else is stripped away all we are left with is our integrity.  When any news person sits in the anchor chair or reports on a story, we the viewer has no choice but to believe what they are reporting as being the truth.  We allow them into our lives to bring us the facts, well at least it used to be the facts not it is their opinion of the facts.

There is a certain amount of trust that is developed if one is to have any shred of credibility in leadership.  People will follow you through anything if they believe and trust you and know that you will not lie to them.  But betray that trust and it is game over.  Morality in America has shifted, especially with the news media, to a point that it is hard to recognize what is fact and what is fiction.

News used to be just that, news.  Now it is entertainment that is not so much concerned with journalistic ethics and outstanding reporting, but being first to bring you a story whether the facts are correct or not.  If they get it wrong, they just apologize and move on.  The blame for all of this can be shared by both the so-called “left” and the so-called “right” media outlets.  It has become “newsertainment” and it is all about telling you what is wrong and who is to blame for it.

Making mistakes are part of being human, and perhaps he is correct that the confusion of the time made him put several stories into one, but I find it hard that attempt at justification hard to believe.  I have never been involved in a crash of a helicopter I have been involved in auto accidents and close calls on airliners, and I remember each of them as if they happened yesterday.  In fact, the airline close calls contribute to my paralyzing fear of flying today.

It seems all the rage in American public life today to say whatever you want and when you get caught, apologize and simply move on.  As if saying sorry gives us cart blanch to say wherever we want.  He only apologized after he was outed by soldiers who had an idea that the facts of the story did not add up and took on some research.  It also appears that his reports of “bodies floating down the street of the French Quarter” were also fabricated.  Integrity is everything!

In the end, I believe Mr. Williams has done the right thing is stepping away.  I further believe that if NBC puts him back on the air it will be a mistake he is tainted now and has zero credibilities and every word out of his mouth will be questionable.  We hold certain professions to a high standard, and we feel violated when things like this happen.  It is good that Mr. Williams has recognized this fact I only hope that he is never allowed to appear on air again.

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Humility and The Spiritual Life

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I believe that humility is one of the most misunderstood aspects of the spiritual life.  Humility is not the sense that we are worthless and that we will never amount to anything; humility is the sense that there is something larger than ourselves and that we need that, however we define it, to help us through.  The story of the Publican and Pharisee from the Gospel of St. Luke is a contrast in humility.

The story has two men, one a publican (tax collector) and the other a Pharisee going up to the Temple to pray.  The Pharisee is wearing his best clothes and walks in at the time when most people would be in the Temple to pray.  He walks down to the center of the Temple and begins his prayer that sounds fine at the start but then his focus shifts from God to himself.  He prays, “God I thank you that I am not like other men.”  His prayer lacks humility because the focus shifts from his thanks to God to being about him.  His prayer was done for effect, publicity, and for admiration.  His thought was not on others but on what others were thinking of him.  He prayed with himself and not for himself.

The publican, standing alone, a few feet away in the shadows so as not to be seen, had his head down and was so weighed down and ashamed by the enormity of his sin that he could not even raise his gaze to heaven.  He whispered softly “Lord have mercy” as the only prayer he could form on his lips.  He stood there, in the shadow of the Pharisee, softly repeating the same prayer over and over again never daring to look up.  He had come to the realization that he needed to change his life and repent for all that he had done to others in the past.  He had the necessary humility to come and ask God for forgiveness.

Admitting we were wrong is not an easy thing for us to do.  No one wants to look as if we do not know what we are doing or talking about.  And the admission that we have done wrong is never easy.  Admitting we are wrong is related in some sense to forgiveness.  Withholding forgiveness affects us on a spiritual level and not admitting when we are wrong does the same thing.  And as I have written previously, the spiritual and the physical are connected, so if our spiritual life is not where it should be it will have an effect on our physical life.

Being able to admit that we are wrong, and asking for forgiveness, shows a level for humility that we all need to strive for.  We should not wait until we are like the publican in the story where we are so weighed down that we cannot even bring ourselves to form the words on our lips.  Take care of those situations where we need to admit that we are wrong, as soon as we can and that will aid in our spiritual healing.

The end of the Gospel story has Jesus telling His disciples that the publican will be justified rather than the Pharisee.  The publican focused on his prayer and his wrongs and not that of others.  He focused on what he had to do to get his life right and did not compare himself to anyone.  He held his head down in humility and simply asked that God forgive him and to send His mercy and His grace to help him moving forward in his life.

Our spiritual life is made up of both the publican and the Pharisee and we have to decide which one we are going to be most like in our lives.  If we wish to be like the Publican then we need to find the humility and we will need to admit that we are wrong and accept the fact that we need to change our lives.  We need the humility to admit that we cannot do it alone and that we need the grace of God to get us over the humps and bumps in our lives.  If we are willing to do that then we will get on the right road, but we will have to recommit ourselves to the journey everyday.

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